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Why won’t people wear masks

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Nandalot Tue 10-Feb-26 11:49:28

About a week ago, DH and I finally recovered from a three week long coughing virus which put us in bed for a week. This morning, DH went to our village shop where he met a friend who told him, while coughing and spluttering all over him, that she had a dreadful cold. Wouldn’t it have been common courtesy for her to wear a mask in that situation? I think it means we shall have to wear a mask whenever we go out.

CanadianGran Tue 10-Feb-26 20:20:34

I certainly don't mind wearing a mask to protect others and myself.

Dickens Tue 10-Feb-26 20:12:54

Basgetti

VANECAM

If we were meant to have masks, God would have provided them.

🙄

Well he does - but uses an intermediary...

Bukkie Tue 10-Feb-26 20:03:11

MaizieD It has been proven beyond doubt masks were useless as was lockdown. As I previously said I have no issue with anyone wearing a mask if they choose to. Likewise people can choose not to wear one.

Tenko Tue 10-Feb-26 19:56:21

NotSpaghetti

​A recent review (2024–2025) published in Clinical Microbiology Reviews (and The BMJ)
​shows that wearing a well-fitted FFP2/N95 respirator face mask can reduce the risk of infection by up to 75–90% compared to wearing no mask in high-risk environments.

In healthcare settings, these are consistently more effective than surgical masks for preventing "influenza-like illnesses" .

​A Max Planck Institute study found that if an infected person and a healthy person both wear well-fitted FFP2 masks, the risk of transmission at a short distance after 20 minutes is roughly 0.1%

They DO work.

I’m a hygienist and was obviously in very close contact with patients, during Covid we wore the FFP2 masks which are a very tight fit around the nose and mouth . It left a mark on my nose and upper cheeks .
They do work . I caught Covid from a new year eve party , once everything opened up and we could socialise.
The problem with the thin masks is that most people don’t wear them properly, not tight enough over the nose and they fall down or leave gaps around the nose and mouth . Also they are single use but most people use them indefinitely. I’ve seen people pull them out of pockets and handbags and they’re pretty gross and well worn.

BlueBelle Tue 10-Feb-26 19:42:40

Smileless thats how I feel I had lived a long life before masks
and I was happy to be out of them I don’t like the feel and don’t think that anything other than surgical masks are useful
They are a nightmare for some people especially those hard of hearing.
I wouldn’t want to go back into them again so it’s just best to stay at home if I have a cold cough or snuffles like we would have done before.
Very few are seen in my area There's one man who has worn a cheap blue one ever since we started but that’s about all

Smileless2012 Tue 10-Feb-26 19:26:09

There weren't any masks prior to Covid so responsible people stayed at home if they could and if they couldn't, ensured they didn't 'cough and splutter' over others.

I'm sure we all remember that 'coughs and sneezes spread diseases'.

sixandahalf Tue 10-Feb-26 19:25:18

It's very rude and selfish to cough over anybody. They should stay away from people.

MaizieD Tue 10-Feb-26 19:20:47

Bukkie

It has been proven beyond doubt masks are neither use not ornament. I have no issue with people wearing a mask if it makes them feel more secure but it shouldn't be forced on everyone. People should however be more considerate and not visit vulnerable people if they have a cough or cold.

No it hasn't. See Not Spaghetti's post about 3 posts above yours.

The masks that don't particularly work are the blue surgical masks which were widely on sale during covid. Their function isn't to prevent airborne infections, they're mainly o stop medical staff dripping snot and sweat on patients... The holes in them are too big too prevent the passage of virus containing aerosols, though, apparently they can reduce it slightly.

You refer to "eastern countries" (presumably China?) - but we are a western country and we are more individualistic and expect to make our own decisions.

Sorry, Cariad, that is just nonsense.
Eastern Asian countries have far more experience of life threatening viruses, SARS and MERS, than we have in the west. They wear masks because they know that they prevent infection. I seem to recall reading during covid that these countries where mask wearing is a matter of course have a far lower incidence of any viral infections, such as colds and flu.

I think they have better manners than we do and see it as impolite to pass their viruses around..

And, China is not the only country in that area...

MayBee70 Tue 10-Feb-26 19:04:17

CariadAgain

MayBee70

I want to start using public transport again and would like to wear a mask. But I feel self conscious about wearing one and feel that people would laugh at me. So I continue to drive everywhere instead. I thought after the pandemic people would get into the habit of wearing masks to protect others the way they do in eastern countries but it never happened. If masks don’t work why do eg surgeons wear them?

Errrr....maybe a bit more about patient reassurance if anything?

We've all had to come out of masks regardless at some point - as we had to get back to looking/acting normal or what would be the point?

We run the government - not the government running us. They are our servants - though they seem to conveniently forget it at regular intervals.

You refer to "eastern countries" (presumably China?) - but we are a western country and we are more individualistic and expect to make our own decisions.

Yes. We decide not to protect other people because it inconveniences us….

Bukkie Tue 10-Feb-26 18:52:57

It has been proven beyond doubt masks are neither use not ornament. I have no issue with people wearing a mask if it makes them feel more secure but it shouldn't be forced on everyone. People should however be more considerate and not visit vulnerable people if they have a cough or cold.

CariadAgain Tue 10-Feb-26 18:41:50

MayBee70

I want to start using public transport again and would like to wear a mask. But I feel self conscious about wearing one and feel that people would laugh at me. So I continue to drive everywhere instead. I thought after the pandemic people would get into the habit of wearing masks to protect others the way they do in eastern countries but it never happened. If masks don’t work why do eg surgeons wear them?

Errrr....maybe a bit more about patient reassurance if anything?

We've all had to come out of masks regardless at some point - as we had to get back to looking/acting normal or what would be the point?

We run the government - not the government running us. They are our servants - though they seem to conveniently forget it at regular intervals.

You refer to "eastern countries" (presumably China?) - but we are a western country and we are more individualistic and expect to make our own decisions.

RosiesMawagain Tue 10-Feb-26 18:29:13

That’s reassuring NotSpaghetti - nice to have one’s personal experience backed up by the medical professionals.

NotSpaghetti Tue 10-Feb-26 17:32:10

​A recent review (2024–2025) published in Clinical Microbiology Reviews (and The BMJ)
​shows that wearing a well-fitted FFP2/N95 respirator face mask can reduce the risk of infection by up to 75–90% compared to wearing no mask in high-risk environments.

In healthcare settings, these are consistently more effective than surgical masks for preventing "influenza-like illnesses" .

​A Max Planck Institute study found that if an infected person and a healthy person both wear well-fitted FFP2 masks, the risk of transmission at a short distance after 20 minutes is roughly 0.1%

They DO work.

MayBee70 Tue 10-Feb-26 17:27:37

I want to start using public transport again and would like to wear a mask. But I feel self conscious about wearing one and feel that people would laugh at me. So I continue to drive everywhere instead. I thought after the pandemic people would get into the habit of wearing masks to protect others the way they do in eastern countries but it never happened. If masks don’t work why do eg surgeons wear them?

RosiesMawagain Tue 10-Feb-26 17:18:19

NB the sort of mask Monica describes.

RosiesMawagain Tue 10-Feb-26 17:17:44

That much has been proven - so I'm astonished anyone still thinks that other people being forced into putting a bit of paper on their faces will protect them.

You say that but my sister in law who has Bronchiectasis and finishes up in hospital with pneumonia whenever she gets a chest infection, invested in some heavy duty masks- the proper sort- which she wears when on public transport in London where she lives- so using buses and tubes probably every day.
We travelled together to France on Eurostar in August , she wearing her mask once on the train, me not. We sat together.
There was a chap with a marked cough just one row away from us, on the other side. I saw him during the journey along at the buffet/coffee place too.
Now I can’t prove he was to blame, but after we got to our holiday house we were with the family so we had no other contacts with strangers, but LSS I went down with Covid, she didn’t.
Anecdotal I admit, but if she had caught it we’d have been looking at an emergency repatriation of one very sick lady.

BlueBelle Tue 10-Feb-26 16:40:45

I don’t wear a mask, but I do stay in when I have a cold or flu there is no way I would go to work or in shops if I m sneezing or coughing but I don’t believe masks give us any real protection

CariadAgain Tue 10-Feb-26 16:34:46

M0nica

The efficaccy of masks unless those high tech ones with special air fliters is limited in the extreme. Look at anyone wearing a mask and you can see gaps all round the edge were infection can get out and in

By all means wear masks if they give you the confidence to go outside. But they have limited efficacy.

Quite!

That much has been proven - so I'm astonished anyone still thinks that other people being forced into putting a bit of paper on their faces will protect them.

It's up to the person concerned about these things to deal with these things and not try and force their wishes onto others.

Obviously - having said that - those who know they are "coughing and spluttering" shouldnt go near any other people they can help - because it's not fair to take the risk of spreading one's illness to others and so it's their responsibility not to be near anyone else they can help until the lurgy is gone. I'm annoyed myself that one of two possible culprits I can think of came near me when they could have avoided doing so in recent years - when they both knew they had some sort of virus of whichever description it was (as I know they could have avoided it - one because of being retired and having a computer okay to do their shopping). The other because he "works (or, in his case, as I subsequently found out steals from home - hence I binned him when I realised he was a thief rather than a person). So they are my two suspects as to why I got some sort of virus (possibly Covid) and it caused me deafness in one ear.

Sparklefizz Tue 10-Feb-26 16:30:58

I wear a mask every time I go out anywhere. I am juggling 13 different health conditions and also having scans for cancer. I don't want to catch anything as I haven't been able to have some of the jabs.

We can't control other people's behaviour but we can control our own.

Luckygirl3 Tue 10-Feb-26 16:20:03

I am wearing one in public gatherings at the moment to try and stop me getting a bug before my heart procedure. No-one bats an eyelid.

Luckygirl3 Tue 10-Feb-26 16:16:45

VANECAM

If we were meant to have masks, God would have provided them.

He/she simply provided viruses.

TerriBull Tue 10-Feb-26 16:15:51

Well I'd make it my business to keep well away from anyone else if I had a cold and I wouldn't appreciate anyone knowingly spreading their germs around, I think many of us developed that caution during and after Covid

I've read there's only one mask that's effective. I think those who are vulnerable would probably need to take the precaution of wearing one of those. Most masks are useless, that was something we had imposed on us during the pandemic. Possibly psychologically, when we were all worried, wearing them instilled some sort of visual false confidence. I certainly wouldn't want to wear one again.

kircubbin2000 Tue 10-Feb-26 15:34:38

I've never worn a mask and don't intend to now.

yogitree Tue 10-Feb-26 15:30:10

I went to outpatients today and wore a mask as I am just recovering from a nasty chest infection and didn't want another one. There was a sign on the door asking those with coughs and colds to wear masks. I did notice a nurse wearing a mask last time I was there.

AGAA4 Tue 10-Feb-26 15:26:41

When someone sneezes or coughs the viral load can travel some distance.
If a mask is worn surely it would stop so much infection getting into the air around and possibly save quite a few people being infected.