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How many Grandads do we have?

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Magsie Mon 23-May-11 16:49:05

How many Grandads do we have and are they happy to be asked things? Step forward lads!

jeni Mon 21-May-12 20:35:37

It's true! So why not?

Anagram Mon 21-May-12 20:06:34

hmm Not so sure about the 'stout' bit, though, jeni!

pompa Mon 21-May-12 19:37:43

Hi Gramps, here are the directions to our shed :-

http://www.gransnet.com/forums/grandads_shed

jeni Mon 21-May-12 19:30:59

I rather like 'my lady Jen' it has ascertain 'je ne sais quoi?'

gramps Mon 21-May-12 19:24:24

Twice before, moments ago, I worded a reply,
But both have vanished into cyberspace
Before my very eye!
My Lady Jen, A stout defender you,
Apologies to you and soop,
And now I'll say goodbye!
I'm leaving you for food you see,
With a twinkle in my eye!
lol

Anagram Mon 21-May-12 18:12:52

Poor gramps!

soop Mon 21-May-12 18:09:07

wink grin xx

jeni Mon 21-May-12 17:51:40

Ugh, how trite
I think you might
Have tried a little better
To praise a gal
Who all can tell
Is a great go getter!

gramps Mon 21-May-12 17:42:26

Thank you soop for your kind retort,
You must be someone's treasure,
I hope that person knows the love,
That we can never measure!

soop Mon 21-May-12 12:38:58

gramps You're the champs! grin

gramps Mon 21-May-12 12:25:32

Hey, Pompa. Is there a map to find the shed?
I found it once, then lost the thread!

I;ve got this pesky PD you see,
and it affects my memory.

It helps me put things into rhyme,
Must go now - I'm out of time!

I'll see you all another day.
(That;s if I can find the way!)

greenmossgiel Tue 15-May-12 22:26:10

I feel better now, Anagram, that you've said you feel the same sometimes! I've had conversations with 2 friends (who don't know each other) today. Each one said she felt the same at times, and always about family.

Anagram Tue 15-May-12 22:16:47

That's so true, green! I thought it was just me....how silly blush. That 'fearful state' is so familiar to me - thanks for sharing that! smile
And you're right - it can knock you off course without any warning.

greenmossgiel Tue 15-May-12 22:13:41

A SOH is the most important thing, pompa. Where would we be without it? grin
Sometimes we feel 'fearful'. I know that I do, pompa. At times like that, I cannot pretend to be cheery. Then something will happen that makes things less 'fearful', and then that's me again - ok till the next time! I have to add, though, that it's mainly family issues that put me in this 'fearful state'! Part of being a parent, isn't it! smile

pompa Tue 15-May-12 20:48:59

Only joking, I knew exactly what you meant, just my twisted SOH. grin

Anagram Tue 15-May-12 20:43:07

No, of course not! You're being deliberately provocative, pompa!
You know very well what I meant! wink

pompa Tue 15-May-12 20:36:45

Are you saying it's ME that makes them contentious ????

oops --- Keep calm and carry on.... grin

Anagram Tue 15-May-12 20:27:17

They're only contentious if you let them be, pompa! Keep calm and carry on....(regardless!) wink

pompa Tue 15-May-12 20:24:04

Hi GA, good to be back, feeling a bit saner now. Will keep away from contentious issues for a while (maybe !)

grannyactivist Tue 15-May-12 20:15:36

Hi pompa and welcome back. wink

pompa Tue 15-May-12 20:07:54

Soop, I'm with you there, knowing that people care is an enormous help.

soop Tue 15-May-12 13:45:46

pompa...Gransnetters have rescued me from the dark place on so many occasions. Bless them all x smile

pompa Tue 15-May-12 05:41:42

As long as it has jam & cream and not one you have pinched from the bathroom.

gramps Mon 14-May-12 23:56:58

Pompa,
Thanx for the info! Will a sponge work too?

pompa Mon 14-May-12 21:56:42

Yes thanks.
Seeing my friend in hospital has helped me come to terms with his problems. I suppose it was my inability to help him that pulled me down, I hadn't realised just how much he means to me, probably my only true friend. The sort of friend you could rely on totally.
I was also being stressed by a couple of family matters, one has now been sorted and I have accepted that the other is beyond my control and it will sort itself for the better regardless.
Having had depression for many years I now know that whilst I can fall into a dark place very quickly, I will always crawl back out, usually takes a week or two.