Most of our family go out together for a meal on Christmas Eve, at one of the local pubs, or within a radius of about 9 miles, then they all come round to our house on Christmas morning for present exchanging. They`re usually all gone by about 12 noon, then the rest of the day it`s just the 3 of us, doing what we want, when we want. We usually get invited to a couple of the other houses over the week between Christmas and New Year, and we have them all here at some time in that week as well. We once tried diverting from the Christmas morning routine, thinking that it was unfair for the littlies to be dragged out to us when they wanted to be home opening and playing with their presents, so we visited all of them instead, but they all complained afterwards that it wasn`t the same, so we reverted back to the old plan. Apart from the 4 year old, our grandchildren are grown up now, or some almost grown up, so are a bit more blase about Christmas than small kiddies.