Many thanks for those who have made helpful and kind suggestions as to the various Charity's that can help.
I try very hard not to be a serial complainer BUT, because past history, training and inclination I decided to fight the local Arriva Bus Companies staff room culture of being anti elderly/disabled. I formed a modest group to engage with the local depot manager, a very charming man with more faces than a town hall clock. The result was i was left virtually house bound by drivers who went out of their way to make sure my " free" disabled bus pass was virtually useless, tho shalt not complain!. I approached Merseyside Probation to ask for help. Human Resources said not our problem, NAPO,s . Spoke to NAPO Chairperson who virtually said the same, but would find someone who could help and would get back within 24 hours, still waiting 18 months later.
I approached a well known services charity for help with an appropriate chair,on the advice of the Community Nursing Matron and the LA OT. not to put too fine a point on it the reaction I got was so appalling had I not been desperate for an appropriate chair I would have put the phone down . At the end of the day they asked, quite rightly in my opinion, for a letter from the Local Authority Occupational Therapist confirming the need and for two quotes. It took LA OT from early May to Thursday just gone ( 4th July ) to provide said letters and quotes. Her line Manager is not an OT and is based in Preston County Hall. Chances are the charity will look askance at the request after all this time, despite many attempts by myself to bring about a quicker solution. The line manager says she has every confidence in her employee, I suppose a 50% satisfaction rate is ok by today's so called caring agencies.
I,m delighted to say British Legion are making a home visit to discus my needs. The lady I spoke to at BLs head office, purely to inquire about a respite holiday left me in tears, not for the same reason as the unnamed charity, quite the opposite . For the first time ever I found myself talking to a person that cared.
in spite of me stating quite clearly my request was simply to inquire about said, possible holiday in a BL holiday home she drew out all my problems that will be looked by CAB Liverpool who,it appears act on BLs behalf.
Greatnan, I thank you for your input. A quarter of a century helping people to understand they have not only Rights but Responsibilities.leads me to understand you must never make assumptions about others means or circumstances. I can assure you as a person who has has himself ran a charity for seven and a half years that I am only too aware that cats and dogs are easy to raise money for, parents who require baby monitors having lost a child through Cot Death for some reason not as appealing as said kittens and pups. You say I am clearly better of not so, in spite of the modest works pension I find being disabled and in spite of receiving DLA at the middle rate it is incredibly expensive to pay tradesmen to do jobs I would normally have done myself in a quarter of the time. I live in dread of the day the Eton Mafia finally withdraw all DLA.
Sorry for such a long post, not I can assure you self pity I,m far to independent and proud for that but hopefully just a few people who make assumptions all is well with the world may just start to accept we are not all in this together, service to country and community essentially mean nothing at the end of the day, Veterans badges, bestowed by a grateful?, Labour Government are worthless baubles and in most cases the day you walk out of an office in a caring agency you become a so what, my wife retains many friends and offers of help from her ex colleagues in various industrial environments she has worked in
. In spite of contacting 3 government agencies and receiving bad advice my wife took redundancy to make way for a younger person to take her job. A week before she received her pension she received a letter she could have either her £49 Carers Allowance or her £50.10 State Pension, not both. The greedy so and so opted for the £50.10p. seems I became able bodied overnight.
Cheers
Moggsy77
aka Peter