Children carried on their dad's shoulders.

POGS when I re-read my post I realised the intonation in the written word doesn't come across as it should.

We can be careful, but accidents will happen sometimes. The fear of what could go wrong shouldn't stop us enjoying life! (although I must say I seem to see more danger in situations than my DC do, even though I didn't see my MIL's zimmer frame!)

Dads have always carried kids on their shoulders I can remember my own Dad doing it donkeys years ago, it might be a recipe for disaster but apart from banning all things dangerous how would anyone suggest its stopped?

roseq



I agree , I thought my last sentence covered that point.

DH and I watched in horror as a dad carrying his DC in a forward facing sling thing tripped up the kerb and just fell forward, somehow the dad managed to land on his knees and no harm came to his DC. It could have been very different though.

DH and his much younger brother used to have play fights, scrapping and rolling around the room. I must admit, coming from a family who did not, I didn't like it one bit and had to leave the room.

My OH was once carrying our DD in a back carrier - he tripped and she sailed through the air and landed in a bog about 2" from a large rock - lucky girl. I always think about that when I see children on their parents' shoulders.

dads can get very physical with their children - I have to leave the room when my SILs start chucking their children around - just can't bear it. The children of course love it!

Accidents do happen, though, POGS. I fell down the stairs when I caught my foot in my MIL's zimmer frame and had a badly sprained ankle.

Elegran that happened to me too, two fellows my friend and I were going out with decided to have a race across a field with us on their shoulders. Mine fell and I was concussed, my calf swelled to double and ended up in an enormous bruise from knee to toes.
However, I didn't marry him!
I do think of that when I see one of the DGDs on DS's shoulders.

Faye

That is not an unrealistic prospect.

I admit to finding this is one of my room 101 topics.

I can't remember who was on the tele recently talking about A&E problems and he said the last time he wentwent to A&E it was because he was carrying his daughter on his shoulders and she fell and cracked her head on the floor. I will keep thinking who said it, within the last 3 days.

I had a cousin who had a very nasty incident when my uncle was carrying her on his shoulders and he walked her smack into a shop sign. Dads forget the extra heigt he is carrying and it only takes a stumble for a serious injury to happen.

When I worked on a market stall every now and again you would hear a thud and a child cry. This was due to the parent loading the push chair with bags over the handle and the weight imbalance inevitably made the push chair topple backwards and the child smacks its head on the ground.

I am not being a party pooper but I had a very serious problem as a child due to wearing my sisters stiletto shoes and falling down the stairs. Accidents are what they are accidental but it is devistating for an adult to have caused their child an injury and for my mind it is better not to put yourself in the possible position of doing so.

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One of my GC sitting on his dad's shoulders, was nearly hit in the head by the moving blade of a ceiling fan. If I hadn't been there just at the right time and saw what was about to happen...

This has always happened my dad used to lift my twin brother to watch football matches & sports when they went to the park so he could see over other spectators heads,it is no different to men weight training in gyms they lift weights far heavier than a small child,obviously you have to be aware of the safety aspect but the bonding between dad & son is invaluable.

MY SIL carried GS everywhere on his shoulders until he was quite large both loved it and no-one came to any harm.

My DS does this with substantial 20 month old DGS! Think it's prob ok for short spells but they also have an all singing/dancing back pack carrier with rain hood etc as they are hill walkers.

Dads have always done it, so I don't see them stopping. It is sort of symbolic of the father/child relationship.

It is not a good idea from the children's point of view either - if he trips, they could fall quite a long way.

When DH are I were students (ahh those were the days, my friend) we once went with a few friends to the beach. The boys took the girls up on their shoulders and inevitably it ended up as a race. DH stumbled and I shot forwards off his shoulders and landedi n a heap. Luckily it was on soft sand, so no damage, but he was mortified. Later, he never carried our children on his shoulders - always piggy-back.

I suppose it depends how big the child is.

We were mean and never carried our children after they were passed toddler stage and even then very rarely

Whoops that should have read "does anyone" - I type too fast.