Sadiesnan I also struggled with the early stages of retirement, not helped by living deep in rural France. The winters were particularly hard. There isn't a big voluntary sector round here and it wouldn't be my thing either. I belong to a book club which meets once a month. I started learning Spanish with Duolingo and now go to U3A for classes (complicated as I have three languages going on in my head). I go to a local keep fit class and out walking with French friends once a week.
That doesn't fill the time but it gives me a routine, which is important I think. Gardening takes up a lot of time in summer and in winter I try to get out and walk every day. We both love cooking and growing food, cooking and eating is an important part of our lives. I read a lot too.
I do get bored sometimes and I get quite annoyed by people who say they are never bored (my observation is that round here they flit from one activity to the next in a rather mindless way, but that may be unfair.)
I think that if you have had a busy and demanding job then coming to terms with retirement can take time and learning to live with it is part of the process.
I hope this helps.
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