Gransnet forums

Ask a gran

The use of acronyms on Gransnet

(178 Posts)
2old4hotpants Fri 12-Feb-16 12:39:23

I love Gransnet, and reading the forums every day. But what really irritates me is the constant use of acronyms. Why not just type daughter, grandson, mother-in-law etc? If we have time to read through the forums each day, surely we have time to enter the grammatical words? And why should they all be darlings? Use of the more obscure acronyms such as ICWYM, FWIW and SO mean I have to pause reading to work them out, or resort to looking them up on the list, which interrupts the flow of reading and absorbing the message.

Are we just jumping on the bandwagon of younger generations text-speak? We are not of their generation, our lives are not generally led at the same pace. Do others agree that text-speak is contributing to the damage of our language? I shall continue to make a stand when posting of using correct language as was taught to our generation. Of course this is only MHO, WDYT?

Anya Sat 13-Feb-16 15:50:16

CCL if people use acronyms or not!

Shizam Sat 13-Feb-16 15:41:18

I find them cringey. But confess to using btw in texts.

MaizieD Sat 13-Feb-16 15:40:35

I don't have any problems with a reasonable number of well known acronyms but if they get to be more than three or four letters long they become difficult to work out. And it could seem a bit cliquey to less frquent users who aren't in the know. As to using them, it's personal choice.

Not sure why there is anything wrong with saying that one spends more time on mumsnet? It isn't ageist or a stealth boast, just a statement of fact. FWIW I do, too. It has far more members and is faster moving. It has a fantastic 'The Archers' thread that notches up over 900 posts a week (which I've been lurking on because I can't bear to listen to the current high profile story line...). and some threads give a good insight into how the next generation or two thinks and behaves. Which I think is really interesting. (and can be very amusing...)

NanaandGrampy Sat 13-Feb-16 15:38:07

Now I don't like acronyms but i do like emoji. They're useful to soften a sentence or indicate humour when the reader might be reading something else into a phrase ( as does happen here sometimes ) smile but i'm not keen on html , so happier on my phone where i have a much wider variety .

ninathenana Sat 13-Feb-16 15:33:02

I'm just a sheep I use DD etc. because it's the norm here, don't like them though. I do use IUKWIM IMHO and similar just for speed but wouldn't use text speak here.
I'm in favour of emoticons they can be amusing and convey the intended tone of a post.

Marty Sat 13-Feb-16 15:32:41

I agree with original poster. I find them very irritating and would prefer the whole word rather than keep stopping and either looking them up or wracking my brains to work out what they mean. I find they spoil the flow of whatever it is I am reading.

Alea Sat 13-Feb-16 15:18:08

shestheone - I gave meanings for all my made up acronyms smile

Shestheone Sat 13-Feb-16 15:16:19

alea Agree with you on this, it's just a matter of preference, no-one's going to be thrown off GN (oops) if they do/don't like acronyms. Are they?!

Sorry I couldn't get any of yours! I'm ok with anagrams.......

grannylyn65 Sat 13-Feb-16 15:10:45

Alea gringrin

Alea Sat 13-Feb-16 15:00:25

OK so much for my GI (good idea)
Now I'm going to be picky.
Nobody forces anybody to use acronyms .
Some members have happily used them for years, some less so.
So, do if you want, don't if you don't want but don't criticise those who do (or DCTWD) I might say smile
Goodness we'll have people criticising emoticons next!
(Oops, just remembered, been there confusedgrin. )

libra10 Sat 13-Feb-16 14:55:22

I agree with the original poster, would prefer to read daughter, son, grandson, etc. rather than OH, DGS and so on.

It can become confusing with some of the longer acronyms, having to work them out, it can spoil the flow and enjoyment of conversation.

NonnaAnnie Sat 13-Feb-16 14:54:32

To be honest, I can't be doing with acronyms and as somebody said previously I don't have to use them, which suits me. But then I don't have a clue what's being said most of the time.

grannylyn65 Sat 13-Feb-16 14:43:56

am useless at texting, so any shortcuts are fine tbhgrin

Linbrikat Sat 13-Feb-16 14:40:34

Acronyms are useful on Twitter when you've got a limit of 140 characters to get your message across. I always think I'm writing a short message, then find it's gone way over 140 so have to shorten things though I hate writing 'u' for 'you' and 'bc' for because.

PPP Sat 13-Feb-16 14:29:29

I don't like the acronyms and like the emojis even less! I don't think it has anything to do with age.

Shestheone Sat 13-Feb-16 13:47:20

I rarely use acronyms in text world - think it's a leftover from when my girls were teenagers and liked to feel they knew something the parents didn't grin

On here, I always use DH. Except in my mind it stands for something less affectionate when describing the husband..............

Bellanonna Sat 13-Feb-16 13:26:38

In RL ( !!) I'd never say darling husband or darling daughter, so it does seem a bit silly on here although I go along with it when I think to.
Re Alea's earlier comment, TALWIHAGOW. smile

mimmi Sat 13-Feb-16 13:07:18

Call me old fashioned but I don't like the use of them, I have no idea what many of them mean, it just confuses me & I don't know what I'm reading
Why can't people just type out the words they want to say?? grin/

helmacd Sat 13-Feb-16 12:51:54

And having looked them up, no wonder I've been confused. What on earth is all this darling/dear stuff?
What's wrong with D for daughter or S for son? It goes without saying that most people love their offspring, surely. And the context of the post will soon alert us if they don't!

helmacd Sat 13-Feb-16 12:48:24

Hear! Hear! I totally agree with 2oldforhotpants!
Though reading this has been useful as I didn't know there was a list to refer to. But if you're writing the other words why on earth can't you type these?

Sillynanny65 Sat 13-Feb-16 12:32:37

I'm glad someone has brought this up. I don't like the use of these acronyms
either. I do a lot of texting, and use text speak, but when I'm on the forum I like to read the content without spending time working out what the abbreviations mean. Call me 'old fashion' !

Maranta Sat 13-Feb-16 11:51:51

I don't like acronyms either and I thought it was because I can touch type too. We are all different ?

Stepnana4 Sat 13-Feb-16 11:49:49

It's too stilted for me. I find I enjoy reading the full word rather than stopping to think what dggd1 means. With predictive text it's just as quick to write and for me more pleasing to see,great granddaughter 1, no,I'm not a fan of the d either. Though wtf and tbh I'm fine with probably because it's text talk. Not thought of myself as old fashioned but maybe I am hmm

NanaandGrampy Sat 13-Feb-16 11:40:32

Kittylester you sound like you have more of a grasp on acronyms than me , Ive seen ND a few times... but the ladies here have been unable to provide a positive ID smile is it nice daughter? or new daughter? or???

Doffy Sat 13-Feb-16 11:31:49

I don't like it either again it's the D for dear thing I don't like tbh lol. I am quite good at the text speak having youngish sons and grandchildren DiL ,GO, GS is fine