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I've had half of a good idea - help me have the rest of it!!

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kittylester Fri 14-Oct-16 13:52:37

As I've mentioned previously, DH is set to retire at the end of November and I would like to buy him the equivalent of a gold watch. He has worked for the NHS, on a self employed basis, for very nearly 50 years and first retired 12 years ago.

We had a big party then and made a fuss of him and then he went back to work. confused We don't want to risk having another party in case he goes back to work again!! And, it's a bit close to Christmas.grin

I'd like to mark the end of his working life in some way but he doesn't need a watch or clock of any sort. We are going away to mark the new era but I'd like something just for him to reward his dedication to the NHS and his family. Anyone any good ideas. It doesn't have to be serious or expensive.

Wobblybits Sat 15-Oct-16 14:04:24

What a way to go grin

kittylester Sat 15-Oct-16 13:45:21

The excitement would kill himgringrin!

Wobblybits Sat 15-Oct-16 13:32:18

But I know you will secretly get him what I suggested, but don't worry it's our secret; I won't tell. grin

kittylester Sat 15-Oct-16 13:04:25

Thank you all for your suggestions.

I had been thinking about getting a painting of our house but have now started looking at caricatures prompted by JaneA.

Maggiemaybe Sat 15-Oct-16 10:37:41

When I heard the words "twinned toilet", I had visions of the wooden seat with two holes in it over the earth closet we had in our backyard when I was five.

I was just thinking you'd probably have trouble these days finding anyone willing to clean it out.

POGS Sat 15-Oct-16 10:05:35

I thought Jalimas link was good fun given his profession Kitty.

rubylady Sat 15-Oct-16 01:18:09

Well, it's a twinned toilet for DS for Christmas from me! grin

kittylester Fri 14-Oct-16 20:34:05

That's the sort of thing, jane. I thought Jalima's link was good.

janeainsworth Fri 14-Oct-16 20:10:08

How about a framed cartoon with a dental theme kitty?
There was a brilliant one by Tony Husband in Yobs in Private Eye some years ago.
Two yobs, one says 'I've got toothache, I'm scared of the dentist though'
Second yob delivers a well aimed blow on first yob and several teeth are seeing flying about.
Second yob says 'There! No need now!'
It did resonate with me at the time wink I tried to find it online but no success yet!

Teetime Fri 14-Oct-16 19:58:05

How about a rose or plant named after him or a star?

shysal Fri 14-Oct-16 19:13:11

Could you commission a personalized caricature from a photo to include a background scene based on aspects of his work? We did this for several leavers from the Hospital where I worked. They were clever and funny and done by a local artist, which nowadays would be rather pricey. A site like this offers a cheaper alternative.
www.tctoons.com/

Wobblybits Fri 14-Oct-16 18:28:26

Twinned toilet shock

Luckygirl Fri 14-Oct-16 18:20:04

We all bought my OH a mandolin. He is a violinist and the fingering is the same and he has really enjoyed it - I would not say he plays brilliantly, but he does enjoy it.

grannyactivist Fri 14-Oct-16 18:19:38

I know I've said this before, but we tend to buy a (twinned) toilet to mark special occasions. The Wonderful Man bought me one for our Pearl Wedding Anniversary. (I did ask him for it!) grin

You get a framed photo of 'your' toilet and you can write an inscription.
www.toilettwinning.org/gift-box

Wobblybits Fri 14-Oct-16 17:38:58

Seen your photo Kitty, you would look fabulous. smile

kittylester Fri 14-Oct-16 17:35:39

I had vaguely thought about that Granny23 but he would say he was only doing his job and he was paid for it.

kittylester Fri 14-Oct-16 17:33:48

Brilliant, Jalima! That was sort of where Ana had nudged me!

Granny23 Fri 14-Oct-16 17:32:11

It might seem a bit far fetched but have you thought of nominating him for an OBE or MBE? Sounds as though he has devoted his life to the NHS and therefore the welfare of all of us. This is exactly the kind of person who deserves such an honour.

Jalima Fri 14-Oct-16 17:30:25

What about a new chair kittylester?

Here's just the thing:

uk.pinterest.com/pin/452259987550609834/

Ana Fri 14-Oct-16 17:21:23

smile

kittylester Fri 14-Oct-16 15:35:08

He'd love it if I looked like that wbgrin

Ana, I really want to get him something to keep and you might have planted a seed of an idea!! Thank you.

Wobblybits Fri 14-Oct-16 15:23:05

Buy yourself one of these, he will love it. grin

Wobblybits Fri 14-Oct-16 15:19:10

My preference would be something that would either last and become an heirloom or an experience. Laptops etc seem to mundane.

trisher Fri 14-Oct-16 15:17:53

Stop buying him stuff kittylester smile

Bbnan Fri 14-Oct-16 15:15:31

My DH is also retiring in December on his 60th birthday does not want to go away till spring
I am going to buy him the gold iPad Pro.....has laptop and iPad but feel he will enjoy this as it's a good size yet portable