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How did you choose your kids' names?

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ninathenana Fri 03-Feb-17 22:25:29

D's middle name is that of H's sister who died at a few weeks old her first name was simply one we liked. I didn't think it common at the time but there were 2 others in her class in senior school.
S's middle name is a family name. His first name too was just one we liked. I remember one of his preschool helpers saying it was a name she hadn't heard for years. It's not old fashioned or unusual though.

DanniRae Fri 03-Feb-17 22:13:09

My first daughter was named after a character in a 1970's, American, comedy series. Then the name was unusual but quite a few people had the same idea......but I still love the name.
My second daughter was going to be called Emma for almost the whole of my pregnancy but we (I) had a change of heart and she was given an old fashioned, classic name.
When I had our son my husband wanted to call him Steven, I wanted David (both our brother's name) but eventually he was called after my favourite cousin who I had had a crush on when I was younger. BYW we called our black labrador Emma!!

Ana Fri 03-Feb-17 22:08:25

I knew what I'd call a daughter in my teens too, baubles. When she was born it was an unusual name, but within a couple of years had become quite popular...(nothing to do with me, honest!)

Anniebach Fri 03-Feb-17 22:08:09

Both our daughters have family names which have been in every generation of my family for hundreds of years

baubles Fri 03-Feb-17 21:52:58

I chose DD's name before I met her father wink. Well, I'd always said if I ever had a daughter I'd give her the name of a character in a book I'd loved as a young teen. DH liked the name fortunately.

We both liked short, strong names and chose DS's name with that in mind. I also liked the look of it written down.

tanith Fri 03-Feb-17 21:48:57

We just chose what we liked for all 3 of them, they were quite classic but I always remember taking my son to register at our doctors which was a large practice, and the receptionist saying well he's the only Samuel we have on our books.. I don't remember there being another one through all his school years either.

Cherrytree59 Fri 03-Feb-17 21:42:33

We chose our DC names because we liked them.
However my family tradition (Scots) was to use previous family surnames as middle names
My mother had 2 middle surnames one from each side of the family .
My father also had his mother's family surname for his middle name.
A tradition that my male cousin''s have carried on.
All my parents siblings had previous generation's surnames as their middle names

In hindsight I can see the advantage of using family surnames as middle names, it certainly makes looking back on the family tree much easier.

Deedaa Fri 03-Feb-17 21:40:56

We named DD after DH's aunt who was the only rich member of the family (No ulterior motif honestly) Unfortunately the aunt was later swindled out of all her money by her grandson grin

When it came to DS we just called him after his grandad.

J52 Fri 03-Feb-17 21:39:34

After teaching hundreds of students it was quite a challenge finding names for our DSs that did not have another boy's face attached!

We eventually chose names that reflected our Scottish heritage, but did not already occur within the immediate family.

annodomini Fri 03-Feb-17 21:08:15

I named my first DS because it's a Scottish name I liked. When it came to the second, I had been reading about Arthurian Legends and was thinking of a Round Table Knight's name. Fortunately the then OH came to the rescue and gave him a normal name which we both liked otherwise he might have been Lancelot or Galahad. In my case, my first name was the second name of two of my great-grandmothers.

thatbags Fri 03-Feb-17 20:37:10

There is talk of naming traditions on another thread and it got me wondering...

Apart from our liking the name, for us it was a case of:

1. Can you yell it (or a shortened version of it) up the stairs or down the street easily? "Ahoy!" is all very well (and much used by us) but sometimes you want a name.

2. Will every nth child in the school have the same name? If so, choose something else. There was one other girl in DD1's secondary school (~1200 pupils) with the same first name for part of the time. No-one shared DD2's name. There is one other with the same name as DD3 in her secondary school (~1350 pupils).
And yet all three are well known, classic names.