How can his parents be accused of being selfish? Of course they have been totally focused on their child's needs for almost a year, and if this was my child I would be fighting as they are to the very end of his life. I don't think it is possible to overestimate how much it would have meant to then to be able to take him home and to lie him in his own cot, to love him, nurture him as they have longed to do since the moment he was born and as they have been unable to do properly since he was eight weeks old. I realise they have now accepted this is impossible but I feel so very sad for them, it was such a little thing to ask at the end of his life and would I'm sure have brought them great comfort in the months and years to come. I really fear for their mental health, and agree with Tegan that I have never seen anyone look so haunted and completely finished. My heart truly goes out to them.