Incontinence (...so NOT sexy!)

After my mother had a stroke she was visited by an incontinence nurse from her GP surgery who arranged a regular delivery of inco-pads which are graded in size to match the degree of incontinence.

Maybe your surgery has a similar service or can put you on to somewhere that does?

These pads are all available on eBay - it's just case of getting the right size.

was just about to post the same merlotgran our GP surgery were very helpful and delivered the pants in huge numbers every month.Worth a phone call to your surgery

I would say the same your husband is entitled to these pads FOC on the NHS often the Continence Nurse will need to assess the right type and level of need and also may have some other suggestions which I wont go into here but there are other methods of management.

Never thought of that, but will check with the surgery. Thanks to you both!

Definitely the continence nurse - try googling it for your health authority; then talk to GP and say "I want one of these!"

...."Please"....

Lucky

I came to say the same as everyone else!

Tena man is the way to go, no. 2 in the day and no. 3 at night. However no. 3 is rater than hens teeth to find and cost a small fortune.
6 weeks post surgery and we still wait to see whether the assessment done last week will agree to provide pads.

Incontinence nurse and very absorbent pads were offered my dad by the incontinence nurse all free on NHS

My mum got a delivery DOC. Go for it.

Sorry.... FOC

As the OP says "so NOT sexy" .
When I see young people starting out their lives together and all the future is so rosy, I just wonder if they ever think that one day they may be dealing with incontinence and cleaning up after ,or for, a partner. No I am sure they don't or they would perhaps never do it.

Have just collected Tena maxi absorbent pads from GP surgery. Had NO idea such a service existed - and FOC! Thanks to all who contributed.

So glad you have got sorted YankeeGran - but isn't it sad that we have to discover all these services for ourselves - surely somebody should have let you know when the problem first began that the pads were available. There needs to be some joined-up thinking between hospital/GPs/nurses.

It really isn't Gransnet responsibility to publicise them !

Do make sure you are getting everything else you are entitled to.