Sorry to read this fluttERBY - I have had some sight problems which are currently not problematic. Our family has a number of loved ones who have lost or are losing sight. I understand you wanting to do something, to give the right advice, it's so hard to feel you're doing nothing. However, as has been said, unsolicited advice can sometimes be received as insensitive, bossy, interfering even when that is the last thing from the person giving advice intended. I expect the closest to the "right time" to speak with your son and/or dil will occur and the key thing is to follow their lead I feel. Such a tough time for all of you
Does anyone else think that trousers like this are hideously ugly?
Hospital visiting: was I unreasonable?