Sadly I have a couple of relatives who are hoarders and I physically cannot visit them as it is too dangerous. How they survive I really do not know but I cannot tàke on the worry about it as it would be pointless. One of them lives in a flat and the neighbours have tried all manner of ways to get the hoard moved as they are understandably frightened because of the fire risk. I know how bad it is because the last time I tried to visit I couldn't physically get inside and so nowadays we meet at a restaurant or hotel.
I don't think the other one is quite as bad but I have not been allowed to visit for the last 7 or 8 years so I am not sure. Not banned but gently prevented by very ingenious methods! The odd thing is that I am the executor so will perhaps have to deal with it eventually. Just in case I 'pop my clogs' first I have taken out a whole of life insurance policy on that relative's life with full consent so that all the costs will be covered. If not needed for that (some hope!) then the instructions to my D.C. are to get together and have a fantastic family holiday on the proceeds.
It is a concern when family hoard but most often there is absolutely nothing you can do until they can handle it themselves. I have never been critical of either of them but they prefer that I don't attempt to visit so I don't. I expect that I probably visibly twitch even though I try not to.
Do you still wear you original wedding and engagement ring
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic