dragonfly46 No suggestions really just a big hug and lots of understanding about what you are going through. It is hard deciding what happens to a parent. Is your dad capable of understanding what will happen to your mum and of giving his own opinion? Perhaps he may decide to say 'goodbye' to her realising she will not know him. On the other hand if he can be taken for a visit occasionally he may be happier.
This may sound dreadful but I would encourage anyone with older parents, particularly if they are in hospital to discuss a Do Not Resuscitate notice with them. It was something we did for my mum and I am so thankful, it enabled her to go peacefully.
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