I know they say that kids should not move countries too often but was wondering whether in my case the situation is different.
A few months ago I was living in the UK where my daughter was born 7 yrs ago. I had to move back home to my family in Sicily where I have all the support but quality of life is not as good.
I had to leave as due to serious mental issues my ex was becoming dangerous and would have found me wherever I moved within the UK . I do have his family there but I was still isolated as did not have friends.
My question is when my daughter is a bit older say 12/13 (so she won't need full time childcare) would it be ok to move back to uk to make a new life (away from my ex but hoping he would have sought treatment by then) there provided I can find work and afford the accommodation?
I feel very sorry for her grandparents in the UK who miss her so much even though they were the ones who first advised me to 'go back home' given that their son was not treating us well. Same as me they did everything to help their son get the professional help he needed but he refused and they are heart-broken over it.
Any advice appreciated.
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