What would you do?

Thanks for the replies. I don't know why I got so worked up about this. Just took me by surprise.
If he finishes the job today I'll tell him that's it for the time being. Maybe ask for his phone number so that I can contact him if necessary.
And try to find someone else.

and everyone's else's advice is good!

Thanks

#theinvisiblewoman

I’m usually invisible J

And x2 Judy’s ?

Jalima’s advice is good!!

It's a good thing I've got used to GN and can just and turn it off

Harrigran's advice is good. This gardener doesn't sound at all suitable. JudyJudy12 has also given you good advice.

Trying to eek out his pension I expect.
but that is not your responsibility

Thank him very much for everything he has done and say that you are going to think about what to do over the winter months.

I would ask around for recommendations - often word of mouth is a good way to find someone good and reliable.

You could tell him that a family member would like to do the garden for you.

I think I would gently tell him that the plans you have for your garden would involve a lot of very heavy work and you couldn't possibly ask him to do it. Thank him profusely for the great start, pay him and say goodbye.