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What would your name be?

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rizlett Sun 09-Dec-18 19:50:19

Following on from the legal name thread earlier - if your name could be anything you wanted - what would you choose - or do you like the one you have already?

luluaugust Mon 10-Dec-18 15:28:10

I like my name although it does give a big clue to my age! I do feel I am more like the first part of my name on here. My DM always wished she had called me Myfanwy after one of her aunts.

Esspee Mon 10-Dec-18 15:25:48

SueDonim. Love your name grin

Trappy Mon 10-Dec-18 15:12:00

I’m a Susan (always Sue) from the early 60’s, I have a friend also Susan born in the late 30’s. Nobody seems to be called it nowadays!

Patticake123 Mon 10-Dec-18 14:44:23

I’ve never liked my name, it was given to me by my birth mother and my adoptive parents decided to keep it even though, by their own admission they weren’t too keen either. I’ve recently moved to a different part of the country and did consider making a change but in the end I didn’t so I guess I’m stuck with it forever!

JackyB Mon 10-Dec-18 14:36:22

I've never really thought about it.

Only recently has my name gained chav-like connotations here in Germany, and many people are surprised that someone of my age has that name. Also I don't like the way it's pronounced by most Germans. But as for the name itself - as I say, it's my name and I have lived with it all my life and never questioned it.

pen50 Mon 10-Dec-18 14:31:27

My parents nearly called me Charity, and I feel I dodged a bullet there! I quite like my name - Penelope - and have tended to use it more in full as I've got older. As to surnames; I'm currently known by my late husband's name, though I prefer my maiden one. Can't be bothered to go through the hassle of changing it for the time being, though. However, if the current squeeze becomes a permanent fixture, our names would double-barrel in a pleasantly alliterative way. But I think that if I marry him it will be for more than a name.

Theoddbird Mon 10-Dec-18 14:26:04

I have always detested my name. I had three godmothers. The other two had lovely names. Saying that I would love to have been named after the grandmother who died long before I was born who I have always felt a connection to. My sister has the name as a middle name as has my youngest daughter. I would love to have been called Cecilia

lovebeigecardigans1955 Mon 10-Dec-18 14:21:07

I've never liked my first name and always wanted something exotic but then I'd have to live up to it.
If I'd been a boy Mum said that I'd have been called Clifford, a name which made my sister and I guffaw! So thank heavens I'm a girl then.

Willow10 Mon 10-Dec-18 14:07:25

There used to be an advert where a man was calling to take a girl out and decided he fancied her elegant mother more - Mrs Barrington! I loved the way he said it. I like Grace as a christian name, so I'd change to Grace Barrington.

newnanny Mon 10-Dec-18 13:54:12

I would like to be called Rosie. My parents allowed my three older sisters to choose my name. Ridiculous in the extreme as I have had to live with it for almost 60 years.

Craftycat Mon 10-Dec-18 13:53:21

I've always liked my name-Hazel. It is unusual enough without being outlandish.
I would have liked a middle name though- Mum had 4 so decided not to burden me with one.

glammagran Mon 10-Dec-18 13:51:52

My mother gave me an Italian Christian name (no idea why) which I hated. Never met another one during childhood but the name is more common here now and I guess I like it slightly more than I once did.

ShellyBee Mon 10-Dec-18 13:47:58

I’ve hated my name for the past 62 years. As a child, I loved the names, Sarah, Katherine and Elizabeth. Guess what I called my 3 daughters?!

Scribbles Mon 10-Dec-18 13:25:44

My mother very nearly called me Olwen after a piece of music she enjoyed. Thankfully, she changed her mind. My fore names are plain and timeless and I've always been quite happy with them although, around about the age of seven, I expressed a wish to be known as Lavinia Veronica Convulvulus! Thank goodness, nobody obliged.grin.

GabriellaG54 Mon 10-Dec-18 13:20:36

notnecessarilywiser

That 'Rothschild' scenario made me laugh gringrin

MaryXYX Mon 10-Dec-18 13:14:29

I chose my name seven years ago and I like it.

GabriellaG54 Mon 10-Dec-18 13:13:06

I like my name. My ex, when we were dating, once said that my full name was a mouthful that 'rolled around his tongue' very well confused but that I was a handful. He never abbreviated it and would correct anyone who used a shortened version grin

grandtanteJE65 Mon 10-Dec-18 12:58:10

My parents lumped me with a name that doesn't exist in English, a middle name with an unusual spelling and a surname that is so rare, even in Scotland that I spent all of my childhood and my adult unmarried years SPELLING MY NAMES and correcting mispronunciations and misspellings.

So when I married I took my husband's surname and unofficially discarded my one Christian name.

But I wouldn't know what to chose instead.

dihut Mon 10-Dec-18 12:55:35

Absolutely always loved my name Diane my DM chose it while in hospital and there were no more at my school so it felt quite unique at the time. But my Grandad said he would rather I had been named Phoebe, heaven forbid ( sorry to all the phoebes out there)

Overthehills Mon 10-Dec-18 12:31:52

My name isn’t particularly common (though DH’s first ever girlfriend managed to be called it too!) and I didn’t like it because people often mispronounced and misspelt it. Now I like it a lot because there aren’t many of us!

Sulis Mon 10-Dec-18 12:13:59

I would be Elizabeth Morgan.

EllanVannin Mon 10-Dec-18 12:11:10

Part of my ID is real apart from the spelling as my middle name is Ellen with an " e ", the Manx is Ellan.
I'm just glad that my forename isn't Mary !

evianers Mon 10-Dec-18 12:03:36

Just remembered. Whilst working in Zürich, I met an English girl from the Channel Islands. Her name was SARNIA, which I thought very exotic and lovely. She liked it too, but even better is Serena .

kittylester Mon 10-Dec-18 12:02:24

I've said before that someone I volunteer with calls me Fleur because she can't remember my name and my name and Fleur are both posh! And, that's even though she knows me!!

Mrs Bucket My mum would have been so proud!

Hildagard Mon 10-Dec-18 11:53:09

Felicity love it ?