There's nothing sad about it, Soniah. Like everything else in life, it's horses for courses, not one size fits all. We no longer live in such traditional times and, therefore, are not going to feel that we need to worry about what others think. Family/friends' circumstances often dictate what we feel we would like to do. My friend comes to visit from Scotland at the beginning of December and that is when we feel Christmas starts for us. We are not going to postpone the decorations till she has gone home as it all adds to the atmosphere. Also, in my case, this year, I put them up earlier as I was having an operation which I knew would incapacitate me for a while and I was so glad not to have to face that particular task when I was feeling weak. I'm glad you were able to get a holiday and still have time to enjoy things as I hope you are still doing.