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Ex Son in Law’s girlfriend dyed the children’s hair!!!!

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Joelise Fri 28-Dec-18 21:08:27

Yawn !

Grannybags Fri 28-Dec-18 21:07:08

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craftergran Fri 28-Dec-18 20:59:21

I am assuming the father of said children had an opinion and agreed with the hair colouring

Jane10 Fri 28-Dec-18 20:58:54

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notanan2 Fri 28-Dec-18 20:50:50

I see it as akin to face paints, temporary tattoos, nail varnish etc.

Fine at the START of school hols but I would be annoyed if a child was returned to me on a Sunday night before school on Monday & no time to soak it off!

Mid hols: no probs.

Jobey68 Fri 28-Dec-18 20:50:21

Bloody furious is what I would be but it could be worse, my cousins ex husbands partner cut inches off her little girls hair because their brothers had been to the barbers with their dad and she felt left out apparently, by the time my cousin had taken her to get it sorted it was practically up to her ears!
An already fraught situation has now become so much, worse, the children of course still see their father but his now wife isn't given permission to so much as breath on them ?

trisher Fri 28-Dec-18 20:49:04

Wash it?

notanan2 Fri 28-Dec-18 20:44:43

Is it hair chalk/temporary? If so its a common gift for those ages and usually applied at start of school hols so it washes out by end of hols.

Its sort of "because we can while not at school" ritual that lots of kids enjoy.

ProudNanna Fri 28-Dec-18 20:38:42

AIBU I’m new to gransnet - What would you do if your grandchildren came back from a visit with their father and his girlfriend on Boxing Day with blue and pink hair? The DGDs are aged two and seven. I’m so ?