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Gift dilemma

(35 Posts)
harrigran Fri 22-Mar-19 08:24:14

I give money if I haven't been advised as to what to get, it is a minefield out there.

yggdrasil Thu 21-Mar-19 14:39:18

Yes I give money, but I do expect to be told eventually what it was used for or put towards. My grandchildren needed money for Christmas & birthdays this year, the oldest wants driving lessons and the younger needs equipment to go skiing with the school

hdh74 Thu 21-Mar-19 13:54:13

Yes BradfordLass72 - I like that

BradfordLass72 Thu 21-Mar-19 11:00:02

As long as the accompanying card says how much he's appreciated and how proud his parents must be of him, or some other positive remarks, I'm sure he'd love some money to spend how he chooses.

It's only impersonal if we let it be so.

hdh74 Wed 20-Mar-19 22:04:14

I've stopped giving vouchers because so many places go bust! I would probably gift cash and a small wrap up to to with, just something silly for the wrap up like a joke pencil or mug or something like that.

Spudtm Wed 20-Mar-19 19:10:55

Thank you for your suggestions. Money would probably be the best idea. Then he can choose his own gift.

Telly Wed 20-Mar-19 17:29:25

I think money is the best option - I think of it as the voucher that you can redeem anywhere.

glassortwo Wed 20-Mar-19 15:41:52

If he uses an x box, you can get gift cards for the Xbox so they can buy items for the games they play or put towards another game. Always goes down well with my 13 years old Grandson.

Teetime Wed 20-Mar-19 15:40:01

How about an I Tunes voucher or Sport Direct

Spudtm Wed 20-Mar-19 15:22:01

Friend's 12 year old son's birthday coming up. Lovely lad, I want to give him a gift but have no idea what to buy. Thought about giving him money, but that seems too impersonal. Would a gift card be better? I know he loves sport and music.