wow.. still waiting for more details on this family situation.
Me? I was in my early 30`s, recently married for the second time, 2 year old son from first marriage, then got pregnant with baby with this marriage, deliberately!
mum had heart issues, told "new" husband, marry me, my mother comes too... he was good, he was able.. mum lived with us for about 5 years, before she died. not easy two women sharing a home.. but we managed..
told my two boys, do NOT have me living with you when I get old.. now I am old and often "dream" of living with or very near, Granny flat, ideal, but know it won`t happen, don`t really want it to... never recommend,,
strange I was thinking during last night, how back in the day, families did live together, more than one generation,, wonder how they managed... seems we have lost something...