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Scentia Fri 14-Jun-19 18:26:37

I was talking to my Daughter about taking her newborn out for a walk so she can have a nap. She said something like she would like him to be a bit older first. Completely understand that. I then went on to tell her about when I was a girl, maybe about 9 or 10 we would go down our street and knock on a neighbours door who we knew to have a baby, and they would happily wrap it up, stick it in a pram and let us take it out for as long as we wanted. I can’t remember them asking where we were going or how long we would be.
My Daughter could not believe this happened in the early ‘70’s she thinks I have imagined it. Do any of you remember doing this?

jaylucy Sat 15-Jun-19 12:59:35

Yes I remember doing it - in fact there was a few babies born about the same time in my street so it was quite a group! Sometimes we walked round the block, sometimes further.
Babies were also wrapped up warm on dry days and put outside in the garden, in the pram for a sleep on their own too - I certainly did in the 1980s

Marilla Sat 15-Jun-19 13:00:05

Sara65, I had forgotten about the matinee jackets!
Lots of beautiful, delicate little boottees, mittens and cardigans. The new baby hats had lovely ribbon threaded through the wool too. This thread is a trip down memory lane and a very nice one too.

I used to love hand washing the tiny hand knitted items.

Does anyone remember the Harrington’s baby gowns?
They were cream in colour and so soft and comfy and both baby boys and girls wore them.

EthelJ Sat 15-Jun-19 13:11:44

Yes I knocked on doors like that too probably in 60s rather than 70s. and like Mamacaz I babysat at 12. Hate to think about it now and what I would have done in an emergency.

Hemelbelle Sat 15-Jun-19 13:18:39

I remember taking my brother out for walks in his pushchair when he was two and I was eight. This would have been in the mid 1960s. By the time my own children were eight (in the 1990s) they were not even allowed to go out by themselves.

knspol Sat 15-Jun-19 13:26:30

Did this in the late 50's when it was the norm. Even knocked on doors of people I didn't know but in the same street and I don't remember ever being refused. Neither do I remember ever being given any instructions. My how times have changed.

Sara65 Sat 15-Jun-19 13:35:23

The only time I let two little girls take my baby out, they were gone for hours! I was a complete wreck when they returned. With hindsight I should have found out who they were for a start, I’d seen them around, but I didn’t even know their names, I gave them no instructions, or time frame, I must have been mad!

kircubbin2000 Sat 15-Jun-19 13:36:36

I was unwell when my baby was about 9 months.Girls of 9 and 10 called and took him out. They told me later they had rescued him from the paddling pool.Later my 2 year old played with a 4 year old who took her down to the shops on the back of his bike. When hubby was baby sitting a child called and told him our son was walking down the lane on his own.

luluaugust Sat 15-Jun-19 13:37:56

Yes I did this in the mid to late 50's not at all unusual, I used to walk up and down the street a few times and then return the baby, I would have been 8 or 9 at the time.

kircubbin2000 Sat 15-Jun-19 13:39:03

Another time the foster child next door decided to run away. My daughter and friend 8 and 9 went with her.They were brought back in the butchers van,he had seen them about half a mile away.

quizqueen Sat 15-Jun-19 13:45:04

I walked to my local high street with my new born in a pram and also took the dog for the walk too. Left the pram outside the chemist as there were steps to the entrance and the dog tied up, came out, untied the dog and walked off down the street without the baby- got half way and realised and ran back panicking, but no harm done- safer times, obviously ( 1980s). I also regularly put the baby in the pram ( born early April so heading for summer) outside in the back garden for hours with the dog lying by it.

HiPpyChick57 Sat 15-Jun-19 13:51:06

Yes it’s true but I wouldn’t have believed it had I not done it myself. It was a thing back then. Me and my friends aged around 10-11 used to take the neighbours babies out. 4 or 5 of us all trouping around the village with those huge prams that we could hardly see over the top of!!! ?
I would NEVER let a child take my dd out when she was a baby!

HiPpyChick57 Sat 15-Jun-19 13:58:24

My dd used to put our little yorkie in her dolls pram and wheel her around on the patio. The dog loved it! This was once my dd had put so many bobbles in the dogs “hair” that she looked like a little hedgehog!

Horatia Sat 15-Jun-19 14:04:57

Yes my friend often knocked doors and took the baby out for a walk in the big pram. It was fine with lots of people then in a village in the sixties.

Willjac123 Sat 15-Jun-19 14:24:29

Yes this happened all the time where I was brought up in Manchester . I was born in 1954, around the corner from Myra Hindley who was 11 then. My mum used to tell me that she often knocked and took me for a walk round in my pram

Welsh123 Sat 15-Jun-19 14:34:50

Used to take my neighbours baby out for a walk in the pram when I was 10 and used to take their dog for a walk at the same time. As long as I wasn’t too long as it was her son’s dog and he wouldn’t have been happy with seeing it on a lead.

Ooeyisit Sat 15-Jun-19 14:42:32

Yes I had this experience too , if we were going to the local park we would gather up all the babies and take them with us . No harm ever came to them , This was in the 50s

Ooeyisit Sat 15-Jun-19 14:46:05

My experience exactly , my mum had another child when I was 8 I took him everywhere I went ,would t have thought of going out without him . No time was given for when we had to be back .

Sara65 Sat 15-Jun-19 15:10:04

It all sounds so lovely, what massive changes we’ve seen in fifty years, I think my village grandchildren have a certain amount of freedom, but my town ones, none at all.

Oldfossil Sat 15-Jun-19 15:24:12

I remember this happening, too. Sometimes the Big Girls ( there were generally two of them, aged around 10) would allow a smaller girl to walk alongside the pram, with a hand on the handle, but not allowed to do the pushing!

VIOLETTE Sat 15-Jun-19 16:04:42

Oh yes ...my friend and I (aged about 9) used to walk the new baby from a house next to us along the road...we walked to a huge park in the town (Ipswich) ...in a big silver cross heavy pram …….no on e ever came to any harm …..my m I l told me she once took her first baby to the Co op..and left it outside totally forgetting about it until a neighbour asked where the baby was ...can't imagine anyone allowing a 9 year old out with their baby now ! Oh and I also used to take the cat and its kittens for a ride in my doll's pram ...they went to sleep ! lovely grin

Floradora9 Sat 15-Jun-19 16:11:19

I took a baby out every Saturday morning when I was about 13 . We went down to the town and strolled about and her mum appreciated the hour or two of peace she got .

sharon103 Sat 15-Jun-19 16:20:42

Yes, my best friend and I used to knock on doors at the age of about 10 and ask if we could take their baby out for a walk. Mum would wrap baby up in the pram and we would be out for a couple of hours or more. The mother never asked where we were going or what time we would be back either. There must have been about six babies/toddlers we used to take out in turn regularly. How times have changed!

sharon103 Sat 15-Jun-19 16:22:37

Forgot to add this was in the mid sixties onward

Sara65 Sat 15-Jun-19 16:23:18

What a wonderful break for harrassed young mums.

Sue56 Sat 15-Jun-19 16:42:13

Yes I felt very grown up pushing the neighbours babies around. My own girls were out in the garden in their Silver Cross Prem in all weather with the exception of fog. Many a time I can remember running to put my hands under the rain cover as it was bulging with water to tip it out. They did seem more content and didn’t need mobiles with the clouds, trees and birds in the sky to keep them amused. Used to love to listen to them cooing and chatting to themselves as they watched the world go by.