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Getting older - options?

(29 Posts)
glammanana Mon 15-Jul-19 10:53:33

Do you have in your area any Housing Associations that have supported housing schemes,the properties are totally self contained and usually one bedroomed your mum can be visited from once a week to every day by a support officer or not at all if she desires.
Depending on her financial circumstances she can apply for help with the rent and council tax payments its well worth getting her name on the Housing Association list for the future.

Grannyjay Mon 15-Jul-19 10:53:15

Whatever she decides to do I would advise her to start planning now. An annexe in the garden sounds a great idea and when you are on your own you need very little space. Just somewhere to cook, wash and sleep. She would be able to keep her independence and help you but please don’t take her for granted. I’ve seen many friends who are just used as free childcare and little else. Good luck.

travelsafar Mon 15-Jul-19 10:50:18

Why not apply for sheltered housing with local council or housing association. She could then sell her house and use the money to live on. But before doing that has she applied for any help benefit wise, she may be eligable for pension credit, council tax rebate, help with her gas and electric bills through the keeping warm scheme, not sure what it is called but i am sure someone on here will know.

Eclipsemum Mon 15-Jul-19 10:46:36

Hi all,

I hope you can help. My Mum is approaching 70, is no longer with my Father and has not got a huge amount of money (mainly just her small house). She’s not spoken at length about what she plans to do in the future, because at some point soon she is going to run out of money and will have to sell the house just to have money to live. What are the best accommodation options for you when you get to your 60s/70s? She wants to live independently (and can) for as long as possible but has raised the idea of us creating our summer house into a granny annexe which isn’t impossible, but probably not ideal (it’s v small) although it may allow her to help with childcare.
Are retirement communities reasonably priced? Are there any options I’m not aware of? We live in North Surrey so not that cheap... there are a lot of “over 60 lease to buy” type properties for sale?
I’d love anyone’s advice.