I have a very small circle of friends, personal friends I mean. So I'd have no problem knowing who to help there. I have 2 siblings, both of whom are well off and don't need any help. So thats good.
I have 2 children of my own and a stepdaughter I'd help straight away. 2 stepsons who don't bother with me, so I'd not really bother with them. (One doesn't bother his dad unless he wants something, while the other is self sufficient).
I'd buy myself a nice bungalow somewhere, after I'd sorted the 3 children. Put money in trust for all the grandchildren, as well as some in day-to-day accounts for them.
Make a will!!
I'd have a craft room so my crafts didn't take up space in our living room. An indoor-outdoor pool would be nice but not a must have.
I think I'd like a little holiday home somewhere, but in the UK.
I'd help locally, like youth centres and charities but I'd like to remain anonymous as I'm a socially quiet person anyway!
I'd pay for the outside of where I currently am to be sorted out, so my neighbours I've had here could have gardens instead of the dumping ground we now have - 2 have gardens, 2 have not! My neighbours inquired a while back and it would cost them in the thousands to have it sorted, which none of us can afford!!
I'd help charities like 'Love Quilts UK' who rely on volunteers to cross-stitch squares to send off to be made into quilts for very ill and dying children, up to age 19. There's an American one, too.
That's all I can think of right now.