Hi folks some positive advice needed.
I am a member(one of the first) of a ladies meet up network here. It is aimed at those living here alone, need a bit of a social life and newcomers.
I have been active form the beginning, 3 years ago, organising lunches, coffee mornings, walks and Museum visits with Children etc.
The first time I met the woman who started the group was on a very wet wild winters evening in an Irish Pub for a dinner.
I took a taxi as it is a complicated journey on public transport.
She started by lecturing me on the PT system here, telling me I could have used it, really patronising, I retaliated by telling here that after living here for 23 years with no car I knew that.
She went in a huff and I moved to another table.
She has constantly made sarcastic, patronising, ageist comments about me on the site. Now someone posted a cupcake icing demonstration online and I posted 'going', the only way to confirm any kind of acceptance.
Oh boy, I got "Felice !!!!! you do understand you cannot actually attend this event in person, perhaps you do not understand the problems just now, then a long lecture on the rules at the moment.
I retaliated, also informing her that my SIL is risking his life everyday to ensure everyone has food on their tables. That I am not stupid and unless she changed the way to reply to posts how else do we respond, 15 other people had also responded but it was only me she targeted.
Sorry this is so long but what now?. Do I contact her by PM or let it go. I am one of the main event organisers in the group actually organising an event every week and really enjoy it, I have made a lot of good friends too.
There are more than 2000 ladies in the group.
Now she has blocked me from commenting on the site, openly, and I am a bit lost in what to do next ???
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