I have a 20yr+ online friendship with a lady in the US who has lung cancer that is now terminal, we’ve been through many trials and tribulations over the years and she has kept me updated with her journey and she supported me through my DHs illness and loss. 3 wks ago she sent me something of hers to ‘remember me by’ which was lovely of her.
Now it’s been 3 wks since I had contact although I can see she or maybe a family member has seen my messenger hugs I’ve sent in support.
Now I could easily find one of her daughters messenger accounts and send a private message, just to ask about her but it feels a bit intrusive especially in the circumstances.
What to do? If her time has come then I’d really like to send a condolence letter to her husband/ family as she was such a lovely friend or should I just let it go?
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