I posted a thread about my husband being a taxi driver to his son. I tried to reply but the website wouldn’t let me. Even though I logged in it said that I didn’t so I decided to make a whole new thread.
I know I didn’t pointed out some things in the previous thread. Basically my husband sold his car because he wants to get a bigger one for his side business, so he’s saving and yes I am sharing my car with him. I didn’t clarify that. I said “My car” because originally it’s mine while he will have his own but at the moment I don’t mind sharing it with him. I also pay for the expenses of the car and I don’t mind giving his son rides here and there but that doesn’t mean that he will feel entitled to get rides all the time for free. He already lives with us for free because my husband doesn’t want to charge him rent. He’s had time to find a job or save money to move out but he hasn’t done anything but live comfortably with us. But the main thing here is the fact that he’s not self sufficient. Why does my husband need to drive him when he’s all day at home and not working or doing something productive. It seems too comfortable to me. And going to his girlfriend’s doesn’t seem like a necessity.
My husband works and he comes home to his son that has been doing nothing all day and drives him when he wants to relax. He has even admitted himself not wanting to drive him. He’ll say: “Oh, I don’t feel like driving my son”. Then why does he do it? His son is an adult and he should figure it out. He’s not a little boy that needs his dad to take him everywhere. I just feel like my husband has treated him like a child all his life. Think about it. He doesn’t work, plays video games, thinks that everything in life is free.
I just want my husband to stop babying him and make him do things on his own. Or else, he’ll be with us when he’s 30 or 40. I wanted to see how parents normally treat their adult children.
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