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Thinking ahead...

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Poppyred Wed 28-Dec-22 19:49:10

Ask your daughter to speak to him? I have the same problem, a hoarder for a husband. 🙄

Lululemon Wed 28-Dec-22 19:43:06

I don't know if I am overthinking this, but it is something that is worrying me. My husband has lots and lots of stuff (hundreds of cameras, hundreds of books and hundreds of cd's)
I am fairly minimalist.
He won't part with anything. If he dies before me I have no idea what I will do with all of his things - quite a few of his cameras are worth thousands of pounds. If I die first I don't think he will part with anything. My daughter is our Executor and it doesn't feel fair to leave all of this to her.
What should I do? I've tried talking to him to no avail.