My daughter, who is in her thirties, has learning difficulties. She has been living independently for some years and copes reasonably well. \I have done all I can think of to help her manage when I go to sit on a cloud, or whatever. We usually see each other once or twice a week and, until recently, she stayed with me every other weekend or so.
I have hoped and hoped that she would find a partner - whether same sex or not, provided she was happy. About five months ago she met online, someone whom she knew at college. I was unable to see her much at this time because of a mobility problem. The problem is that he has isolated her from many friends and likes me as much as I like him! He was homeless but moved into her sheltered accommodation and she has been told to leave. There is a lot more background but too much to place here.
|Problem is, what do I do? I am late seventies and struggling to cope with the stress. He is currently on police bail for an alleged serious sexual crime. When I call to have a coffee at her flat he will not leave her side, just sits and glowers whilst i am there. She has not been to our house since Christmas. He is extremely manipulative and controlling.
She rang me a short while ago and told me that she had had her hair cut at Open Door! I volunteered there a while ago and know many clients were going through a bad time and this is not a criticism of them. However, to find my daughter brought to this end is so worrying.
He is trying to push her into marriage which will benefit him because he will be homed but it is a total disaster for her.
I know really what I have to do in order that she keeps in contact but he makes it more and more difficult, banging and making loud noises when I am on the phone.
Has anyone been through this and come out the other end, please. Advice would be so welcome.
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