Blondiescot
Germanshepherdsmum
Yes, it certainly does. It’s better not to know it’s the last time imo, if possible.
I would tend to agree with that. I would love to to go horse riding again, but I know it's probably fairly unlikely. I think I'd have been very sad indeed if I'd known the last time I rode a horse might have been the very final time (at the time).
*Blondiescot - mine is riding too, although I did know when it was my last time really.
I had ridden since the age of 3, my daughters also started at 3 and we have now 'backed' my granddaughter at 3!
I never had my own horse though until I was 50. I saw an ad for a lovely elderly gentleman who needed a retirement home, but was still capable of 'happy hacking'. I was by then at home all day as had to give up work, and with the help of my daughters, I took Sydney on. He perked me up no end. He was a 'been there done that' horse - had had a wonderful life, but as his owner had hip problems, and he was very wide, she could no longer ride him.
I couldn't 'ride' per se, as have no core muscles left and couldn't use my legs. It was a 2 man job to get me on, and off, but I had the balance left still and I did ok. He became 'voice activated' for me, would only go up a gear when I said he could and behaved impeccably for me always! Other people though, he would enjoy himself far more, knowing they could cope, and he brought on a little lad, my neighbour's boy, who looked like a pea on a drum, but ended up as a work rider for Andrew Balding! My daughter took him on a local charity ride - he started off plodding down from the stables, and as more horses joined him to the start he became progressively more interested, he knew what was going on and got so excited that we had to drop his reins on to the bottom ring of his bit - even then she could barely pull him up! We didn't let him finish it because it would have been too much for him, but he had a fabulous time - just gave him extra Bute and he was fine! As time went on his arthritis became worse, and after riding him the time for me to recover got longer and longer. When the time came to say goodbye, I think he had chosen it - he got himself cast in the field next to the fence and couldn't get up, he hadn't even really tried. I called his other Mum and we waited for her and her daughter to come - in the end the vet said she had never seen anything like it - there were 9 of us saying our goodbyes. Whilst we waited, he was fed his favourite treats, Murray Mints, parsnips, squashy pears and apples from the tree next to his field. It was awful, but it couldn't have been nicer .... I miss my old gentleman dreadfully, and am having a little sob now ....