My niece waited for 5 years of primary school to get her son assessed. The SENCO was useless, his class teacher was useless and year after year they fobbed her off. All those years were totally wasted.
In his last year at primary school she paid privately (instead of updating their car) about £2000 for a full assessment. It was extremely thorough and confirmed he was on the autistic spectrum. She then did battle with the LEA because she knew he would never cope in mainstream school. After lots of toing and froing and form filling they finally agreed to fund his education at a lovely private school for autistic kids.
From day one he took to it like a duck to water and is thriving there. Bear in mind that every day for him at primary school was a battle and he learned nothing. He is like a changed boy and can stay there until he leaves school.
Gals, I'm going grey!! Need words of encouragement



