I've known Hayling all my life as a visitor and have several friends there. I think only you can work this out. Hayling has only one road on and off the Island so in summer in good weather the queues can be horrendous. Our friends time their activities on the mainland carefully!
There's good shopping on the mainland at Havant and Portsmouth but Hayling itself has some small shops, a Lidl and a tiny Sainsbury’s.
My friends are happy there - why not rent a self catering holiday home for a couple of weeks in the summer and see whether you like it?
Anyone here ever watch The Dog House?
