I'm 70 and coloured my hair Firey Red and have had so many compliments about the colour.
What does age matter if it makes you feel good?
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Coloured hair at 70
(182 Posts)This has been preying on my mind since I spoke to a friend recently who has decided to grow out her blonde highlights and go grey.
It was just how she said it that I thought was a bit insensitive, as I am older and have a subtle caramel colour with a few highlights.
She said she’d made her mind up to grow her colour out as she’d been thinking that blonde hair at 70 was…..
she screwed her face up with a look of disgust. She then stated that two of our friends were doing the same.
I told her that I thought her hair colour suited her but she was adamant.
I don’t feel the same way, I love my visits to the hairdresser, I alway feel a boost after I’ve revived my cut and colour.
To me, it’s just making the most of myself, the same as putting a little makeup on and wearing stylish clothes.
It’s part of who I am.
What do others think about coloured hair at 70?
I am 80 and quite unashamedly colour my hair.
One of the reasons is because my hair has yet to go fully grey, let alone white and the natural colour is a mess of original colour on the top of my head and grey/white around th edges.
White is not a colour that suits me, when i do go white, if I live that long, I intend to dye my hair a flaming ginger.
Do whatever you want, nobody else's business.
Im 78 and my hair is falling out so is horrible. It has gone almost white but it's really difficult to give it any lift or body with the thin-ness. I hate it; it makes me feel so old....
I can say with absolute certainty that if I had my eyebrows tattooed and my lips plumped I would not look my best! Each to their own.
I think you should do as you wish.
I’m 68, nearly 69. I’ve always had dark hair then the grey started to come through. My hairdresser and I went through a long process of taking it to a platinum blonde which I love! I’ve had my brows and eyeliner tattooed and my lips plumped. I wear makeup. Last year I went for a boudoir photo shoot and got some amazing photos as a result. People never believe I’m
the age I am. Why should we not look
our best just because we’re getting older?!
Go with what makes YOU happy.😁
I think you should do whatever floats your boat, it is nobody’s business but yours. I grew my colour out years ago because I hated having to colour my hair so often and I love my silver hair, but I have had a few people tell me that women my age should not have long hair. There will always people who think they can tell you what you should and shouldnt do……. Ignore them and just do what ever makes you feel good
I was a natural blonde but it’s gone silvery in recent years so I have some subtle highlights put in about every three months. I will always do so, I also paint my nails.. they’re a light blue at the moment!
I think your pal must have forgotten that “blondes have more fun” tis true!!🤣🤣
Yes, I do at 73, highlights four times a year, because half of what I have left has gone dark, whereas the other half is now grey.
It's interesting that this subject comes up now when, at 76, and with practically 30 or so years with coloured hair behind me, I've finally decided to let my natural white and grey hair come through. Many people say they prefer my hair like this and that it 'makes me look younger' and that it 'softens my face'. Those who don't like it or are indifferent remain silent, I suppose. The most important thing is that I like it a lot, and have totally appropriated my new self. Let's be our own woman!
I’m 79 have did have dark brown hair I now have caramel dye and highlights. It seems to brighten my skin as well. I will keep colouring and makeup as long as I can. 😊
My good friend has her hair coloured in her later 70s and looks lovely. I took fright when one of my daughters suffered a severe allergic reaction to hair dye and stopped colouring mine. I quite like my silver hair, luckily still thick and shiny. To me it seems ridiculous to set an age limit on colouring one’s hair.
My mother started telling me it wasn’t seemly to have long hair after I had my first child - aged 32 -band bullied me until I was expecting my third at 39 when I gave in and had it cut. I still regret that.
Do what pleases you DollyD
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I think it also depends on the texture of your hair. Grey hair can grow through coarser and more wiry than your original colour hair.
I am not a fan of hair dyed a dark solid colour on older ladies, especially when it is short and in a old fashioned shampoo and set style. It looks so old fashioned. We used to call it helmet hair. You don't seem to see it so much anymore though
Some of the modern home dyes are really good. The one I use (medium blonde) gives me natural highlights where the grey/white parts of my hair come out lighter than the still darker parts. I do it myself but people generally think it is expensive highlights.
I agree with what you say here!
I still colour my hair at 71 because when it fades I look very washed out. I don't take it back to the dark colour which it used to be but to "deep medium blonde" which in reality is soft brown and more or less matches the colour of my hair where it isn't grey. My own hair had red tones and these still show a little and the grey makes it look slightly streaky and more natural.
I never managed to find a salon that didn't make it too dark and flat looking, but recently have had a visiting hairdresser who does exactly what I want and leaves me with enough colour to do my roots between visits. Sadly she has moved so I'll have to find another solution, possibly my daughter will be willing to do it for me.
Lovely colour. It would be a travesty to dye that lovely hair, and imho wouldn’t look right. I think ladies often don’t take time to consider honestly whether their dyed hair still suits their face, in their determination not to go grey - mine simply didn’t, it looked very false to me and as though I was desperately trying to look younger. I see this ‘mismatch’ between face and hair colour a lot when out and about. One good thing to have come out of lockdown for me!
My hair has been totally white since I was in my fifties. I have never really bothered having it coloured since. I am now 82
Your life your hair. I have my hair highlighted and paint my nails whenever I want to. Wear what I consider suits my shape/figure and really don’t care for people’s opinion as I buy my clothes (!)
I also don’t care to be considered a typical grey haired old lady! I’m nearly 73 but that’s just a number!
For what it’s worth - my granddaughter went through a stage of having her blonde hair coloured and it looked grey - fabulous!
Enjoy being YOU.
Natural grey isn't for everyone - it depends on your skin tone and hair quality. Some of us have almost transparent white hair! Which is why I'll continue to tint mine a medium/warm blonde with highlights, ad infinitum. And for the record, many celebs sporting 'grey' hair like Dame Mirren's bespoke platinum silver tint (and other similar subtle pastel tones) have their personal colour technicians to thank!
I needed my roots done every five weeks but as I get older five weeks is no time at all and I was so bored waiting for the colour to take. I kept thinking of all the other things I could be doing. I still need it it but I’m out in about 25 minutes. And only £44 .
Three years to go until I am 70, but I enjoy having my hair colored. Purple. Not all of it, just some highlights. My natural grey and white look great with purple. The white bits take the color especially well.
I think it also depends on the texture of your hair. Grey hair can grow through coarser and more wiry than your original colour hair.
I am not a fan of hair dyed a dark solid colour on older ladies, especially when it is short and in a old fashioned shampoo and set style. It looks so old fashioned. We used to call it helmet hair. You don't seem to see it so much anymore though
Some of the modern home dyes are really good. The one I use (medium blonde) gives me natural highlights where the grey/white parts of my hair come out lighter than the still darker parts. I do it myself but people generally think it is expensive highlights.
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