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Coloured hair at 70

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DollyD Tue 24-Oct-23 15:40:00

This has been preying on my mind since I spoke to a friend recently who has decided to grow out her blonde highlights and go grey.
It was just how she said it that I thought was a bit insensitive, as I am older and have a subtle caramel colour with a few highlights.
She said she’d made her mind up to grow her colour out as she’d been thinking that blonde hair at 70 was…..
she screwed her face up with a look of disgust. She then stated that two of our friends were doing the same.
I told her that I thought her hair colour suited her but she was adamant.
I don’t feel the same way, I love my visits to the hairdresser, I alway feel a boost after I’ve revived my cut and colour.
To me, it’s just making the most of myself, the same as putting a little makeup on and wearing stylish clothes.
It’s part of who I am.
What do others think about coloured hair at 70?

HappyAmI Thu 26-Oct-23 12:04:16

My mum is nearly 102 and she still has her roots done. Her hair colour is an integral part of who she is.

Following her example I also have my hair coloured, a bright,blummy, blackberry, reddish shade. When the sun or light shines on it it almost looks alight.

I get total strangers telling me how much they love the colour of my hair.

I'm now almost 64 and I shall never grow grey. I tried during Covid and I looked so drab and old.

Lulu16 Thu 26-Oct-23 12:03:44

My hair has become darker and darker as I have become older! It is grey at the sides, but I have highlights as it just softens it a bit and looks less harsh and flat.

Beautyandthebeast Thu 26-Oct-23 12:02:33

I'm 70 and I get my colour done every six week. Medium brown with a few highlights. I also get my eyebrows microbladed twice a year and I can't see me ever giving it up, well untill I can't physically travel. So do what's best for you.

Jess20 Thu 26-Oct-23 12:01:45

My friend of almost 80 has no grey, all natural brown - you don't have to be grey to be natural looking after 70

valsdomain Thu 26-Oct-23 11:59:45

They will have to carry me away kicking and screaming to stop me colouring my hair. Have done it since I was 16 and don’t aim to stop just because of age or because someone else tells you to. I’m 74 now!

chickkygran Thu 26-Oct-23 11:57:03

That’s just her opinion DollyD, which I’m sure you respect, but it’s not yours. You keep having your hair coloured whatever age. Shame you were made to feel uncomfortable but we all have to do what suits us best

kwal Thu 26-Oct-23 11:56:14

I think at 70 you are old enough to make your own decisions! I colour my hair and will continue to do so. What other people think is their problem, not mine. Whatever floats your boat is what I say!

Susieq62 Thu 26-Oct-23 11:54:44

Do what you want! I grew my hair during CoVID ! Used to have highlights all the time but now I am a natural whatever!! It is all sorts but I get complemented plus I am saving a fortune !!!

Gundy Thu 26-Oct-23 11:52:21

As long as you stay LIGHT you’ll be fine. A woman’s complexion changes as she gets older, so lighter in shade is better and more attractive.

It’s women who continue to color their hair the same shade they remember in their 20’s-30’s (especially dark hair) that ages them and looks fake. This does not make them look young.

Gray hair is very much in vogue now. Younger women are embracing their natural look and look stunning. But not everyone grays gracefully. So gray is not for everyone.
USA Gundy

grannyro Thu 26-Oct-23 11:49:16

It is totally a personal choice. I lost my hair after chemo and it came back white/grey. I loved it as I had coloured my hair for years but I loved the new colour. I have never regretted keeping it grey but if I had never had chemo I might still be colouring my hair now!

Nannieannie69 Thu 26-Oct-23 11:48:28

Bottle blonde here at 72. My (plentiful) hair is greying very patchily and I’m not at all ready to leave it to do its own thing. But each to their own 🤷‍♀️

jenpax Thu 26-Oct-23 11:48:10

Some friend😳 carry on colouring your hair as long as you want! Your body your choice and none of her biz!

Lyndylou Wed 25-Oct-23 13:41:39

Exactly Mollygo For some considerable time my DD has had a lovely shade of red hair that no-one would believe is natural but no-one tells her she should stop colouring it. I know what my natural colour is from lockdown and I have no intention of stopping colouring it now just because I have reached 70.
Basically, I prefer it coloured so why is anyone else bothered?

Mollygo Wed 25-Oct-23 13:19:41

It’s almost another ageist thing, long hair, dyed hair etc.
Have your hair how you like it/how you can afford it. So many young people have their hair dyed now because they like how they look, so why not when we’re older?

NonnaW Wed 25-Oct-23 13:18:44

I don’t yet have any grey but I started to have my hair coloured about 4years ago, and I mean coloured - I have been bright fuschia pink ( which faded to a lovely peachy pink), blue, but have for the last year or two have had a mixture of blonde and pink, which my hairdresser call raspberry ripple. I last had it done a couple of weeks ago, just before my 70th birthday. My 7yr old great niece sidled up to me and told me she wished she could have coloured hair.

Germanshepherdsmum Wed 25-Oct-23 13:14:06

GrannySomerset

I started to go grey in my thirties and kept it an expensive secret for a long time but as my complexion changed it looked more and more wrong so I have been silver for some twenty years - and think of the money saved! It’s an entirely personal choice, though I am sometimes surprised when the owner of attractively coloured hair turns round and presents a much older face.

That’s precisely why I grew out my highlights - although I have good skin, the hair colour I had had since my 40s just didn’t match the face any longer.

TwiceAsNice Wed 25-Oct-23 12:38:12

I am 70 and still have my hair coloured regularly at the hairdresser. I wouldn't even consider stopping. I had to be grey when salons closed during Covid and hated it , I felt and looked awful, was so glad to see my lovely hairdresser again he cuts and colours it exactly as I like it and makes me feel good.

Do whatever you like . My best friend chooses to be grey ( same age) but she doesn’t criticise me and I don’t criticise her

Primrose53 Wed 25-Oct-23 09:24:29

When we visit Spain and Portugal I always notice that all the elderly people must use the same colour hair dye.

All the old ladies have conker brown hair and many old men are the same,

ginny Wed 25-Oct-23 09:02:17

Your hair , your choice.
I let my hair go naturally grey about 5 years ago when I was 65. I sometimes wash in a light pink colour.
MIL ( now 911) had hers dyed a blondish colour. During the covid lockdown she had to let it go to her natural silver grey and has not gone back to dyeing it. It actually makes her look younger and softens her face.
I think a good cut whatever colour or length is more important.

nanna8 Wed 25-Oct-23 08:17:26

I’ve gone very light blonde and I just love it. Makes me think of my Scandinavian ancestors! It is naturally a boring mousy colour with a bit of white over my ears. Yucky. If it was bright white all over like my Grandma’s was, I wouldn’t mind but it is not.

Allsorts Wed 25-Oct-23 08:12:52

I let mine go grey and like it. People often say how nice it looks. I couldn't be bothered with all that sitting in the chair having roots done. However if I didn't like it would have no hesitation having it dyed, if your hair looks a sight nothing you wear looks good.

Bella23 Tue 24-Oct-23 22:45:06

Mine was blonde from birth. It is now quite dark with grey streaks, my DDs like it as does DH, so I had my bob cut short and try to pull the grey streaks to the front.
When I look in the mirror I see my fathers hair. I did have to change my specs and then looked better with a smokey grey pair.
I think everyone should do what they want.

GrannySomerset Tue 24-Oct-23 22:42:13

I started to go grey in my thirties and kept it an expensive secret for a long time but as my complexion changed it looked more and more wrong so I have been silver for some twenty years - and think of the money saved! It’s an entirely personal choice, though I am sometimes surprised when the owner of attractively coloured hair turns round and presents a much older face.

HowVeryDareYou2 Tue 24-Oct-23 22:25:27

I think whatever makes a person happy - my hair was naturally almost jet black, but I started going grey at 25. I dyed it dark until about 3 years ago (it's been blonde, brown and auburn too) I'm 64, and now have it dyed mid-brown with blonde highlights.

FoghornLeghorn Tue 24-Oct-23 22:03:07

I’m 70 and have my blonde highlights done every six weeks. I couldn’t care less what anyone else thinks and certainly won’t be subscribing to any rules set by others.