Alcohol and the elderly

Or a rosé rozza

I don’t think of myself as elderly lol - but I love a couple of glasses of Pinot in the evening.🥂🥂

I’ve got no desire to live a lie without pleasure, so I can end up in a care home at age 96 or something.😗

Cheers…🍾🍾

Happygirl79

So, OP what is your definition of elderly?

Lots of people keep asking this. I think it was 81 (unless I'm confused 🥂🍾🍷

My 94 year old dad has a wine glass full of sherry before lunch and two very large whisky and gingers before dinner. He’s also let slip that if he feels down he has a shot of brandy in his early morning tea. He dozes a lot in the chair 🤣 I worry that one day he’ll fall and can’t get through to him that the more he drinks in the evening the more he’ll have get up for the bathroom during the night. But as he says he doesn’t have many pleasures left so I cross my fingers and take a deep breath!

I only buy wine for culinary purposes, - think bolognese, posh shepherds pie/fish pie, I don’t enjoy the mouth feel or the sleepy sometimes head-achey effect. I have taken a liking to Zinfandel or pink Cava though.
In the fridge currently sit Baileys, Warninks and Malibu just awaiting their moment…. Oh and a Summer Pimms with “everything but the kitchen sink” in a tall glass 😋

JdotJ

When my dear father was admitted into a Hospice in his last days there was a drinks trolley which would be wheeled out every evening for all the patients to have 'whatever they wanted'.

This reminds me of when I was a chef in a hospice. One of the Nursing Assistants would come down most afternoons asking for a big bowl of ice-cream. One day I finally asked her what she was doing.

"Making a Baileys and Ice-cream for the patients".

Got to the point where we'd actually run out of ice cream. And Baileys!!

When my dear father was admitted into a Hospice in his last days there was a drinks trolley which would be wheeled out every evening for all the patients to have 'whatever they wanted'.

Absolutely not! Why should you be concerned? It is her life. Let her enjoy it.

60? You are young enough to be my daughter!

Nowhere near 😲

I'm soon to turn 60 ...and although I barely drink currently due to meds ... I'm wondering ... Am I a "very elderly one " ?🤷🤔

My 95 year old father is in a wonderful care home. They have armchair keep fit every morning at 11, followed by a sherry. They have a glass of wine with their lunch at 12.30. He has another glass with his cheese and crackers at 5.30. Is he happy? Very! I'm putting my name on the waiting list 😅🤣😅

Sipsmiths G&T for me.
Expensive but it was a gift.

A cheeky ‘little’ 😳 Shiraz for me! 🍷🍷🍷

Patsy70

*Stanlow*, tried following the recipe, but fell over! 😂

😂😂😂

Enjoying a naughty glass of Sav Blanc! Cheers
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GNHQ - there are other wines than red, you know!!

MissAdventure

It certainly has got you all going. 🤭

Definitely got me going, going to the wine fridge…

Stanlow, tried following the recipe, but fell over! 😂

It certainly has got you all going. 🤭

Is this a serious post or one designed to get us all going?
Reckon the wine will probably do her more good than the meds!
Cheers!

You certainly don’t need to be worried about her.

I loved your recipe too Stanlow

Stanlow your recipe was hilarious!!!!!!

Wow, so judgemental! You really want her to stop enjoying what’s left of her life, don’t you? Mind your own business and get the Brasso so you can polish that halo of yours.

I have an elderly friend who has been tee-total all her miserable . She quite brazenly told me she was born a virgin and would ‘go to her grave’untouched!!!! A …manless….childless….grandchildless….fear ridden ….oh-so-careful ‘ what you eat’ life .
She does nothing but complain about her existence . I got mad with her on phone the other day and told her she should’ve found herself a bed-partner …a bottle of plonk …and had herself a good time! Even if only just once!
Yikes Pat37…..leave your elderly person to pick her own way out of this world. Sounds like she’s done her duty and is now enjoying herself. As am I!