Birthday present dilemma

I seem to recall a similar problem on here a while ago, where it was thought that a relative had mixed up two presents. I think the general consensus was to leave well alone. In this case, I would say thank you for the lovely card and leave it at that. If she did intend to give you a present, then she'll say something about it, I'd have thought.

Perhaps when you talk about your birthday, she may ask "Did you like the......"?

It was my brother who had mixed up my present with that of our other brother.

I said nothing which I think is probably best in this case too.

I would say nothing unless she asks if you liked your gift. It was probably a voucher which either she will find somewhere or she sent to someone else by mistake. If she asks if you liked it I think it’s better to come clean as if the mistake comes to light later your friendship may be damaged by a white lie.

Thank you for your kind advice; I think I will leave well alone, unless I am asked; it might be kinder.

I had a similar incident this year my close friend put a card through my door the night before my birthday inside it said present a bit late so I didn’t say a thing the weeks went by and I presumed she’s missed it completely, again I just buried it and said nothing then nearly two months after my birthday I got a lovely present from her but it was nothing that she would have sent away for or be waiting for and she’d had no ongoing family or health problems so a real mystery !
Best just go with the flow and hope it doesn’t happen again

I think that you should mention it. She thought that she had put a gift in the card and will want to know that you liked whatever it was. I'm sure it's just a simple error and a voucher is lingering in a drawer or a handbag. You can both laugh about it together.

kittylester

It was my brother who had mixed up my present with that of our other brother.

I said nothing which I think is probably best in this case too.

Did your other brother not say anything?
Wasn't this vouchers or something, for an expensive shop?

Ali08, I doubt my other brother knew what he should have had. And, I suppose we could actually both have been given the same. Too cringey to mention.

They were John Lewis vouchers.

An update on the present situation - we have a mutual friend who is a member of my walking group; at our walk today she passed on to me the gift that friend had forgotten to put in the card. It was a gift voucher for a well known high street store, so will look forward to spending it.

All's well that ends well!

That's good BlueSapphire a relief.