Elegran
In my post referred to by GSM are three things which I believe enable someone from a "working-class" family to make the most of him/herself, They are health, education and confidence.
Clearly GSM had plenty of the last, when she set off to train for a profession which would give her job satisfaction and a quality of life she would not have enjoyed otherwise. Not all those living in a rundown housing estate are so lucky. Perhaps they come from a family who are unable to get employment and have no savings, for whatever reason, and their schoolfriends have no plans beyond "the dole" and gathering in a gang to ogle girls and repel rival gangs on their territory.
A child in those circumstances will have no confidence in his/her ability to do anything more challenging, more interesting only to follow in their parents' footsteps. A minority find confidence in a grim determination not to go under in the tide of apathy - but most will drown.
But suppose that child likes to draw cartoon characters, or to invent dramatic stories, or play tunes on a guitar, or to make scraps of wood into toys, or care for animals. These qualities may never be skilled enough to take them into careers where they will have enough spare cash to develop a lifestyle where they own a Merc and a big house in the Home Counties, (even hitting the bigtime in the entertainment and art worlds takes luck as well as talent) but if the skills are nurtured they will still have them as adults. They will be using them for the benefit of the people they look after. - and for their own mental well-being, keeping them from needing medical attention.
Society is wider than just the intellectual professions.
You are very wrong in thinking that I possessed plenty of confidence. That’s something I have never had, though I have learned not to let it show. Nor have I ever had good health. I attended a state grammar school. I came from a working class family but despite being blind my father always worked, and as a result I have always had a strong work ethic. Can you imagine just reading legal text books in the evenings and at weekends, buying some old exam papers to get an idea of what was required and then turning up at Alexandra Palace to sit the exams amongst crowing ex-public school boys (judging by their accents)? At one exam one such specimen said to his friend, I kid you not, ‘Bloody awful paper last year wasn’t it?’. They were re-sitting. I was terrified - but, having imagined that nothing short of perfection would do, I did very well. The clutch of distinctions I got still didn’t give me confidence - as I still had to find articles which despite my academic achievement wasn’t easy as a married woman without a degree. You either have determination to better yourself or you don’t. One of my husband’s most successful employees was a black lad from a large family living on a council estate. He shared a room with his brothers and had no quiet place to study - but he did well at school and at university because he was determined to make a better life for himself. You either have that quality or you don’t.


