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Moving Overseas - Maybe

(55 Posts)
mumski Mon 24-Feb-25 16:07:55

Topsec. Just do it!
I hate to be a misery, but we really don't know what's around the corner.
My DH and I were going to do similar. However, before we could get our plans into action , he became ill and died very quickly.
While you both have your health - and each other, just plan and go!
Good luck. It will be wonderful x

CountessFosco Mon 24-Feb-25 15:58:33

Lived in six different countries, on three Continents, Africa, Australia and four in Europe. Absolutely Wonderful experiences. Definitely go for it as you will always regret not doing so, and wonder whether you have done the right thing staying put. We "came home" after 44 years. What a terrible shock! Regret not staying overseas. If you need any information whatsoever, please feel free to contact.

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 24-Feb-25 15:48:36

TopSec - do you speak or read any Greek
or Turkish?
It would seem prudent to consider how quickly you might learn the language of your new home.

tobyianathekid Mon 24-Feb-25 14:56:25

I think you will be silly not given the weather here at the moment. The only thing I would be sceptical of is the quality / access to health care.

TopSec Mon 24-Feb-25 14:52:54

Good afternoon all,

My husband and I (69 & 75) are very keen(ish) to move overseas (Cyprus). We love it there and have friends already who live there. We have no children but do have some beautiful god children, so we will miss them terribly, although I expect we will see a lot of them during holidays etc. I just wonder if any of you wonderful gransnetters had moved overseas, and what your experience, opinions are. I know I have to be 100% sure and at the moment I am about 90/95%. I just worry that if we don't then we will get another 5 years under out belt and wish we had done so. Its such a huge step - one minute I am positive, the next I start wavering, like today - got out into the garden and tidied it up ready for spring and thought to myself that this was a lot to give up. However, I know when I watch the news and listen to how our country is going, I just think, let's just bloody go.
My husband was in the forces for 33 years so we did a lot of living abroad during that time, so that aspect of moving is not a worry for me. I believe I can even do my job from there too, which would be a bonus. I think it it our age that is a worry to me, although we are both fit and healthy (at the moment), and we have looked into the health care in Cyprus and it is very good and certainly cheaper than private health in the UK (which we pay for currently)
Anyway, don't want to go on too much but would be really grateful for any experiences any of you may had
Many thanks