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GrannyMagoo Sun 16-Mar-25 11:45:39

I'm looking for some advice about sleeping arrangements for my grandchildren when they come to stay.
They lived in Australia, so I don't see them much but they will be staying with me for
three weeks, They will be 2.5yrs and 5 yrs.
I have a small bedroom with a single bed etc. but wonder if I should buy bunk beds (goodness knows when they might be back) or would an inflatable bed be okay for the
youngest?
I'd suggest topping and tailing but I know that wouldn't be acceptable to their parents.
There isn't enough room for a trundle bed, unfortunately.
Thank you.

Primrose53 Sun 16-Mar-25 14:31:44

What’s wrong with a camping airbed. Like a lilo?

Norah Sun 16-Mar-25 14:44:23

You asked if inflatable would be OK?

Yes, when we have to have more people than we have beds, we use inflatable beds. Linens to fit precisely (adjusted by sewing).

Benross Avenli Twin Size Inflatable Airbed with Built In Electric Pump | Quick & Easy Inflation | Storage Bag Included | Flocked Surface| Camping or Home| 1.96L x 0.97W x 0.47H metres | 88080 - Amazon

Maggiemaybe Sun 16-Mar-25 15:00:59

If as you say the youngest is still in a cot, you could check out your local charity shops for a travel cot - we have a couple of local charity shops specialising in children’s items and they always have them in stock. You’d need to add a thicker mattress for comfort for an older child/longer stay.

Or just a single mattress on the floor that could simply slide under the bed afterwards for future use?

Oreo Sun 16-Mar-25 15:52:20

What’s a trundle bed? Have heard of truckle beds which slide out from under a normal bed, often used in the past.
Inflatable beds are great now, very comfy even for an adult.

grandMattie Mon 17-Mar-25 13:37:11

Can you borrow.?

Mojack26 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:46:36

Bunk beds I would say. An inflatable ok for1 max 2 nights but not 3weeks. Is 2 5 yr old in a bed? I would double check before doing anything. Plus bunk beds are space saving and give a wee bit room to play

Sarahr Mon 17-Mar-25 13:46:45

Top and tail. Never hurt me when we had visitors. It will be exciting for them. Otherwise, see if you can borrow a chair bed or single lilo.

granjan66 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:48:58

My grandkids sleep on mattresses in the loft, though it is also my husband's office. It is carpeted and heated.

Grannyjacq1 Mon 17-Mar-25 13:59:33

www.futoncompany.co.uk/shop-by-product/sleepover/cube-bed-with-magazine-pocket.html?srsltid=AfmBOopl5wUPxuGDh2wPXJvHRh85pWhAENkBEAvl0NbQC
These bed cubes are brilliant and double up as seats. We have 2 for visiting grandchildren and the Aussie replies.

WelshPoppy Mon 17-Mar-25 14:01:08

I definitely wouldn't use bunk beds for that age group. How about a couple of junior mattresses from IKEA used with sleeping bags. When we used to take our children camping, around similar age we used inflatable mattresses with sleeping bags folded in half so they didn't disappear inside them and no distance to fall.

AuntieE Mon 17-Mar-25 14:01:19

Inflatable mattresses are inadvisable if you have cats! they love lying on them, but their claws go straight through them, so keep a puncture kit for bikes handy.

I would suggest a folding mattress of foam rubber instead.

Buy and adult lenght, then it can be used as the children grow older.

Or could the little one sleep in the same rooms as the parents? Is there room for a bed there?

NemosMum Mon 17-Mar-25 14:23:46

Children love sleeping bags - you could borrow or buy cheap ones. They will look forward to camping at granny's!

Azalea99 Mon 17-Mar-25 15:15:51

A canvas sunlounger? It wouldn’t take up as much room as a proper bed

Babs03 Mon 17-Mar-25 15:16:24

I think the Z bed would work out cheaper and if you don’t need it afterwards just sell it on your local gumtree.

Babs03 Mon 17-Mar-25 15:20:21

We have a two and a half year GS, he has a child bed at home but when staying with us the parents don’t want him to sleep in a single bed, it is too high so he sleeps on a cot mattress on the floor of their bedroom, they say is the safest option for now.

RoseberryTopping Mon 17-Mar-25 15:24:20

the Futon Company also do porta beds which my grandchildren love, with a sleeping bag on top. They are aged 5 and 3.
www.futoncompany.co.uk/images/detailed/35/Futon_Company_Porta_Bed_Cornish_Blue.jpg

Georgesgran Mon 17-Mar-25 15:27:05

Same thing Oreo although I’ve never heard them called truckle. Always trundle here.

Lathyrus3 Mon 17-Mar-25 15:39:32

A friend put her 2yr old GS in a large dog bed. He loved it😬

missdeke Mon 17-Mar-25 16:38:24

I have a zed bed for my grandson when he visits. Unfortunately he is now 16 and still has to use that when he comes and he's over 6 feet tall, no other bed will fit in the tiny bedroom. But it has been very useful thoughout the years.

CanadianGran Mon 17-Mar-25 17:01:47

Also, if there is a local Facebook mums group or buy and sell, you could request a cot bed there. Just like you, some people get one for a temporary visit and sell them on

Frenchgalinspain Mon 17-Mar-25 17:09:32

A sofa bed might be a good option.

I do not know if your town / city has an Ikea however, perhaps Amazon.uk

This way they could sit on the sofa when not sleeping ..

rocketship Mon 17-Mar-25 17:54:30

nanna8

Be careful with bunk beds if they are not used to them. Especially as they are quite young.

EXACTLY~~~ THIS ABOVE

Lahlah65 Mon 17-Mar-25 18:22:42

Our bunk beds had safety rails to stop kinds rolling out. Mine were definitely in there at 5.5 and 2.5. No less safe than the youngest escaping over the side of the cot from 1.5 😂.
But I would urge that you talk through the options before they arrive - I can’t believe that they won’t be thinking through these themselves and they must know your circumstances.
There is nothing worse than being away with a small child that can’t adapt to unfamiliar sleeping arrangements. On the other hand, they might be seasoned travellers and very flexible - you won’t know if you don’t ask.
I though the bumper bed looked like a great option, and even if it’s only used for 3 weeks, it’s a drop in the ocean compared to the cost of bringing a whole family from Australia for 3 weeks. And you are bound to be able to pass it on to someone else in a similar situation.

Lahlah65 Mon 17-Mar-25 18:23:13

….kids of course…

GrannyMagoo Mon 17-Mar-25 19:36:58

Thank you all for your suggestions, really appreciate your thoughts.