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Are grazing tables good?

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Elowen33 Sat 26-Apr-25 16:17:37

I think they are great for a photo but that is all, they become messy and people touch food that others will be eating. I will not eat form one.

Primrose53 Sat 26-Apr-25 15:27:10

Visgir1

Personally, I love them.
Colourful, different I really don't like the "Grey" buffet. Sandwiches, sausage rolls etc bit boring. Appreciate you can have Hors d'oeuvres style food at a cost as they are more time consuming to make. But all the Grazing table events I have attended have been enjoyable, and different. Various Cheeses, Meats, Breads, nuts, Vegetables, dips etc. Plus they don't have much left over. Or have I haven't notice the table being a mess, as the food is eaten.

I recently went to a Wake where, the Buffet was "Grey" I reckon 60%of the food went in the bin, it was dull and sad looking and I know wasn't cheap.

I have also done a big Ploughman's A Selection of Cold meats, Cheeses and Bread table for about 60 people that works too.

Do you mean “beige”? I hear people discussing beige food but never grey.

I would hate the idea of everyone touching the food to assemble what you want. I have been places and seen people not washing their hands after using the loo or blowing their nose. Grazing tables don’t sound very hygienic to me.

shysal Sat 26-Apr-25 15:13:32

I have just done a search on line and think they look awful even before being touched. A buffet can be just as colourful and much easier to serve oneself.
www.bing.com/search?q=grazing+tables&form=ANNTH1&refig=4B44920A1DA94DAAA97226EA2457E542&pc=LCTS

Allira Sat 26-Apr-25 15:05:17

You can put out a variety of colourful foods Visgirl but on separate plates and dishes, without having them all on one board or platter.

A buffet doesn't have to be grey - if the bread of pastry is grey it must have been rolling around on the floor 😀

Allira Sat 26-Apr-25 15:02:50

I've just had a look at some pictures of grazing tables.

Look pretty at the start, but all those fingers delving in - Ugh!

Cows and sheep graze, humans, no.

lixy Sat 26-Apr-25 15:01:18

nandad in my experience no one ever eats the salad leaves, no excuse needed!

Visgir1 Sat 26-Apr-25 15:00:56

Personally, I love them.
Colourful, different I really don't like the "Grey" buffet. Sandwiches, sausage rolls etc bit boring. Appreciate you can have Hors d'oeuvres style food at a cost as they are more time consuming to make. But all the Grazing table events I have attended have been enjoyable, and different. Various Cheeses, Meats, Breads, nuts, Vegetables, dips etc. Plus they don't have much left over. Or have I haven't notice the table being a mess, as the food is eaten.

I recently went to a Wake where, the Buffet was "Grey" I reckon 60%of the food went in the bin, it was dull and sad looking and I know wasn't cheap.

I have also done a big Ploughman's A Selection of Cold meats, Cheeses and Bread table for about 60 people that works too.

lixy Sat 26-Apr-25 14:59:31

Traditional buffet would be my preference for a large gathering. Grazing tables just seem to be buffets without any borders and so my tidy self finds them difficult to appreciate!

I have catered for 30 with a Spanish style tapas, lots of small plates to share. That was fun, and we had interesting meals for a week or so afterwards too. . .

I guess with any self-service catering the secret is to keep replenishing, but that would be for someone else, not the host, to be responsible for. Getting in caterers sounds like a very good idea!

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sat 26-Apr-25 14:48:09

After reading your post Gracie I wonder if that’s the secret of them … a small group thing only? A large event makes a right old mess!

nandad Sat 26-Apr-25 14:46:25

I love buffets, but hate grazing tables! As others have said, when items are removed and there are gaps it looks messy. If they are on separate dishes things can be moved around easily. Items in the middle of the table require people to stretch over items on the edges knocking them off, or ending up with grease on your clothes. And, there’s nowhere to put a plate or glass down. No one wants to eat the salad leaves because they have touched the salami, the bread sticks become soggy and someone will always plop the tongs on top of the food, that’s if there are tongs!

FriedGreenTomatoes2 Sat 26-Apr-25 14:45:53

You make very good points Maw. I’ve only been to one ‘grazing’ event. The table resembled a dog’s dinner very quickly with everyone diving in and ruining the aesthetics!

RosieandherMaw Sat 26-Apr-25 14:28:57

I have encountered two at wakes after funerals and think they are an abomination.
First of all they look pretty when newly laid out but soon degenerate into a dogs breakfast.
How can you “make” your own sandwich/roll or whatever from the bits laid out, hold a plate, and a glass, plus possibly shake hands with people, without making a mess?
I have also noticed how much seems to go to waste.
I have catered in the past and know how much work goes into those delicate but delicious mouthfuls so that they do not go all over your hands or down your front! Mini quiches, mini pork pies, mini beef wellingtons, mini tempura prawns , mini blinis - do you spot a theme?
Finger food should be just that, or, if you prefer (just) fork food ((leaving one hand free for a glass!)
A hog roast/barbecue/buffet/cold meats and salad, are all excellent as long as you can sit or perch to eat it.

Gracie12 Sat 26-Apr-25 14:19:45

We have had several lunch time gatherings and had caterers to set them up...they are not cheap but the ones we have had have looked spectacular and much enjoyed by all .involved . I have also done my own grazing table when we have just had 4 or 6 guests ...I have suitable plates and slate boards and they have been lovely ! go for it ...looks super in the photos too !!
..did one for my 80th 4 years ago..

Aldom Sat 26-Apr-25 14:15:31

What is a Grazing table please?
How does it differ from a traditional buffet?
I've not heard the term before. smile

Blossoming Sat 26-Apr-25 14:12:01

I don’t like grazing tables, they look messy to me and I find it difficult to identify the food I like. I do have dodgy vision though!

kittylester Sat 26-Apr-25 13:54:11

Thanks molly. We were just talking about doing a combination. But, I'm getting caterers in! blush

Mollygo Sat 26-Apr-25 13:42:22

From my POV it depends how many you’re expecting and for how long.
My limited attempts at grazing tables (all copied from books I might add) look more stunning than the buffets we usually do . . . until stuff starts disappearing.
On the other hand, catering for different foodies and “I don’t like my foods to touch each other children” means a buffet is easier to set up.
For bigger family/friends occasions I’ve found it easier to have a buffet, with a grazing selection in the middle.

kittylester Sat 26-Apr-25 13:32:11

DH is 80 in the summer and we want to hold lunch time party, preferably at home.

We have done all sorts for other birthdays - a hog roast, a traditional buffet etc etc.

Grazing tables seem to be the thing at the moment. But, are they a good thing?