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Emergency back-up help in older age

(33 Posts)
Allira Tue 02-Sept-25 22:33:05

I saw a watch advertised on TV today which is a personal alarm.
There are different makes of personal alarm watches which will alert designated family members or friends if you fall or anything should happen

Age UK sells one which you can wear on your wrist or around your neck:
www.ageuk.org.uk/products/mobility-and-independence-at-home/personal-alarms/#:~:text=The%20Age%20Co%20Personal%20Alarm,their%20independence%20and%20live%20securely.

Floradora9 Tue 02-Sept-25 21:44:36

Do you not have any neighbours that would notice if things did not look right. We look over to our 94 year old neighbour every day to check she has opened her curtains . The other day she opened her garage door but did not take her car our so DH checked all was well . I had visions of her lying somewhere .

Mt61 Tue 02-Sept-25 18:33:28

I mean anyone in general Sarnia.

Mt61 Tue 02-Sept-25 18:32:43

Sarnia

I am your age. After a second heart problem appeared in March my family clubbed together to get me a 24/7 personal alarm. Telecom 24 is the company and I am very pleased with it, although I wasn't sure I needed one at first. I find it has given me a degree of confidence. Telecom have several types of alarms to suit everyone. Mine is a GPS so can track me wherever I am. Should I need to alert them I just press the alarm and they answer very quickly to see if I need any help. They have 3 contact numbers and my key safe code should I be unresponsive and people need to get in. It might be just the ting for you with a daughter far away and one nearer but slow to react. Good luck.

How does it work if you die?

Cath9 Tue 02-Sept-25 17:35:53

I feel the same as yourself but for myself I have no one son who, although has a house near me spends most of his life in a different time zones. I do have one older brother who lives in the UK so have just added a thread to see if anyone else is in the same boat.

Sarnia Tue 02-Sept-25 17:31:21

I am your age. After a second heart problem appeared in March my family clubbed together to get me a 24/7 personal alarm. Telecom 24 is the company and I am very pleased with it, although I wasn't sure I needed one at first. I find it has given me a degree of confidence. Telecom have several types of alarms to suit everyone. Mine is a GPS so can track me wherever I am. Should I need to alert them I just press the alarm and they answer very quickly to see if I need any help. They have 3 contact numbers and my key safe code should I be unresponsive and people need to get in. It might be just the ting for you with a daughter far away and one nearer but slow to react. Good luck.

BlueBelle Tue 02-Sept-25 17:21:56

No need for two threads you are already getting answers in your other thread

Artemis47 Tue 02-Sept-25 16:55:37

I've already posted this under Technology but as I'm asking for info this seemed a better forum. I am in my late 70s and live alone. My health and mobility seem to be pretty OK, though I do get tired. However, time to face the reality that I am two years off 80 and I need to ensure my own wellbeing and safety. Without being overdramatic, it occurred to me that it's not impossible that I could die and no one would know for at least a few days (and my poor cats would be wondering why I wasn't getting up to feed them!)
I have two daughters, one of whom lives 15 minutes away by car but isn't great at responding to calls (she's much more responsive on WhatsApp). I do think that if I was hospitalised and the hospital called her as my next of kin, she wouldn't be prompt in answering the phone.
My other daughter lives 400 miles away in Scotland but is more reliable in responding to texts and calls. I have discussed my concerns with her and she suggested that I send her a very short "hello" text each morning. If she hasn't heard from me by the evening, she can call me herself or call a couple of back-up neighbours who have keys to my house and can check up on me.
However, I also think it might be useful (and perhaps less onerous for my Scotland daughter) if I had some personal device that would alert her or emergency services if I had, say, a fall or even a stroke or heart attack. But there seems to be a plethora of products on offer and I don't know where to begin. I know also that any device I have will need to be digital and not landline-based, as the latter are all being digitised in 2027 apparently.
Age UK have sent me some general leaflets and have directed me to an organisation called Living Made Easy, which lists different products – but again, there are so many that it's confusion. Where to begin? Any advice and information welcome. Thank you!