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tanith Wed 11-Mar-26 10:20:01

I'm 77yrs old and find all modern music sounds repetitive and souless rubbish. So were we spoiled being of the 50s 60s 70s era of wonderful music? Or am I just an old misery stuck in the past whose car radio is tuned to Gold all the time?

paddyann54 Thu 12-Mar-26 14:40:04

Because you don’t like t doesn’t make it “bad” Oreo it’s just not your taste.

Jojo1950 Thu 12-Mar-26 14:11:28

Same here! 💐

Elegran Thu 12-Mar-26 14:04:28

Oreo

I like the old Kinks songs too, there was another quirky one, called something like Follower Of Fashion? And another about Terry and Julie , Waterloo Sunset?

www.youtube.com/watch?v=stMf0S3xth0&list=RDstMf0S3xth0&start_radio=1

David49 Thu 12-Mar-26 13:14:55

Oreo

Bad music, does Tiny Tim shrilling ‘tiptoe through the tulips’ count? Saw that recently on a music channel.😲

I remember Tiny Tim, different for sure, but not the worst, thankfully most have been long forgotten.

Allira Thu 12-Mar-26 11:31:19

TerriBull

Oreo

There is most definitely Bad music just as there is Good music in every era.

With that in mind, I could never really embrace "Shuddup a ya face" a classic I know, and a phrase worth uttering very occasionally, not to anyone on GN of course --well maybe just the odd one--

😂😂😂

Allira Thu 12-Mar-26 11:30:43

Oreo

I like the old Kinks songs too, there was another quirky one, called something like Follower Of Fashion? And another about Terry and Julie , Waterloo Sunset?

Terry and Julie - possibly Terence Stamp and Julie Christie (or probably Ray Davies's sister and her boyfriend!)

TerriBull Thu 12-Mar-26 11:30:34

Yes I loved the Kinks too, especially Waterloo Sunset, dedicated to Terence Stamp and Julie Christie - allegedly!

TerriBull Thu 12-Mar-26 11:29:13

Oreo

There is most definitely Bad music just as there is Good music in every era.

With that in mind, I could never really embrace "Shuddup a ya face" a classic I know, and a phrase worth uttering very occasionally, not to anyone on GN of course well maybe just the odd one

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:27:16

I like the old Kinks songs too, there was another quirky one, called something like Follower Of Fashion? And another about Terry and Julie , Waterloo Sunset?

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:24:51

..and I love to live so pleasantly, live this life of luxury lazing on a Summer afternoon😃

Witzend Thu 12-Mar-26 11:22:15

In the 80s when we were living in the Middle East there were now and then sell-out concerts featuring 60s pop icons, e.g. The Searchers, that usually took place around a hotel swimming pool, with dinner thrown in. Great fun!

I loved The Kinks, still do. One vivid memory late 60s is of an afternoon in the garden of an old schoolfriend of dh, whose parents were away. It was sunny summer Sunday afternoon, and I was sitting on the grass when the old friend came and sat beside me - The Kinks ‘Sunny Sunday Afternoon’ was playing.

‘Hello’, said the friend. ‘Are you stoned?’
‘No’, said I.
‘Oh’, he said. ‘I am.’ 😂

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:16:42

Romola

My father, born in 1910, died 1971, was a professional classical musician. He was fascinated by the Beatles and said their music would be played in 100 years.

I think he was right, it’s already about 60 years isn’t it?

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:15:20

Bad music, does Tiny Tim shrilling ‘tiptoe through the tulips’ count? Saw that recently on a music channel.😲

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:12:53

Certainly less mundane than mine tho I was happy at the time, the only people in the house drinking endless cups of char were family or neighbours.🤭

Oreo Thu 12-Mar-26 11:11:10

Thanks Cossy that was an interesting childhood😃

David49 Thu 12-Mar-26 09:49:00

Allira

^I don’t think there is bad music^
🤔

We remember the good music there has been plenty of awful music through the years

Romola Wed 11-Mar-26 16:00:30

My father, born in 1910, died 1971, was a professional classical musician. He was fascinated by the Beatles and said their music would be played in 100 years.

Beautyschooldropout Wed 11-Mar-26 15:18:20

Oreo

There is most definitely Bad music just as there is Good music in every era.

I was going to say "Spoiled, no. Nostalgic, yes."

I recently found a double set of CDs of late 1960's music. I was looking down the track list when I came across one song which I instantly got an ear-worm " Grocer Jack". How I loathed that song and still do!

The rest are upbeat poppy songs which are pleasant to reflect on.

Liz46 Wed 11-Mar-26 15:08:46

I remember seeing Queen (with Freddie) on the tv many years ago. I was busy doing something but the music got through to me and I loved it. We saw them twice in Liverpool and they were fantastic.

Rocketstop2 Wed 11-Mar-26 14:31:33

I think the reason was so different in the decades you describe was that the music was individual. The groups/singers in all of those decades had to work their way up from the bottom, never knowing where their next pay was coming from, often having to hold down day jobs and gigging at night.Travelling round in old cold vans which would often be their sleeping accomodation after a gig.They had to save and buy their own instruments and stage clothes, they worked so hard to keep going and their music was a source of pride to them.Every great group, from Small Faces, to Beatles, Queen, to Led Zeppelin, Rod Stewart to David Bowie, ALL of them honed their craft over years of rebuffals, different band members, name changes and struggles. These days someone can create something on a computer in their bedroom, out it on instagram or tik tok and instantly become a star and thus rich. It must be galling for the older bands to see how easy it is today.The result is a lot of mass produced sound alike music.

ViceVersa Wed 11-Mar-26 14:20:26

Oreo

There is most definitely Bad music just as there is Good music in every era.

Music is very subjective though. What might be 'bad' to one person might be a favourite of another. I prefer to take the view that while I might not like a particular song or piece of music, someone else might love it. I'm sure many on here would hate some of the stuff I listen to, for instance.

hollysteers Wed 11-Mar-26 14:15:14

MT62 “Like dancing to a car alarm”😁

Cossy Wed 11-Mar-26 14:05:00

Oreo

Strangers dancing in your living room?🤭 Sounds random, tell us more?

My parents were “party people”, my Dad worked very hard and was often working away, my mum worked part time and got on well with all the neighbours.

I’d often come in from school to find a neighbour or two enjoying a glass of wine or sherry, sitting in our kitchen gossiping.

When my dad, whom I adored, came home from business trips, he and my mother would trot up the road to the local Conservative club and when it closed would bring home whoever was still there and “party on” at home.

They had this huge radiogram encased in wood and a drinks cabinet. In the summer it would be in the garden, my Dad had a barbecue shipped to him from the USA in the 70’s, a big globe shaped jobie that not many others had at that time and he’d cook steaks, chicken, lamb chops and my mum would make huge salads and do jacket potato’s in her modern kitchen, with bright orange units and a big open hatch to the dining room.

I was an only child but always encouraged to bring friends home, sometimes my Dad would get us a bottle of Pomagne, or babysham, we thought we were very sophisticated.

It was a quirky and in ways quite neglectful childhood, but other than when my mum was very unwell and became quite unstable and a bit aggressive, it was a happy time, full of laughter and people, sometimes “strangers”

Oreo Wed 11-Mar-26 13:38:29

Strangers dancing in your living room?🤭 Sounds random, tell us more?

Cossy Wed 11-Mar-26 13:29:22

Oreo

Also love the Beatles version of Golden Slumbers, and now have this as an ear worm.

I love this too and the song you mentioned earlier, from the original Italian Job.

My parents played music constantly. My mum loved Frank Sinatra and Dean Martin, my DD loved old style country music, especially Johnny Cash, they both liked Elvis, Sammy Davis-Junior, Ella Fitzgerald and “Sachmo” My childhood was full of music (& strangers dancing in our living room!)