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dollydaydream68 Sat 09-May-26 10:34:25

I'm due to go on caravan holiday with DH. Although I enjoy it I'm beside myself with worry about the 'what ifs'.
It's ridiculous I know. He was ill once and I had to get ambulance etc.
He was ok but I worry it will happen again.
Fortunately he was ok to tow us back and I was able to extend the site booking.
I have insurance to get us back if he is unable to.
What if site is full, he's ill for long time etc etc.
He's so supportive and says we won't go if it's too much but I can't do that. I know that logically it will be fine
Thanks for taking the time to read.

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REKA Sat 09-May-26 10:44:41

I know how you feel. Our minds go into overdrive with an the what ifs!

It's quite normal to have these feelings and I'm sure all will be fine once you get there!

Arrive, sigh of relief, enjoy your holiday!

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BlueBelle Sat 09-May-26 11:11:40

Oh I can relate to that
I ‘what if’ and catastrophize and thankfully it rarely happens, but just spoils the fun or enjoyment you would have if you didn’t, so try your best not to, be firm with yourself and chuck the thoughts out as soon as they enter

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Cardamom Sat 09-May-26 11:12:18

Perhaps setting up some contingency plants for "worst case scenario" would help with your anxiety? Just an idea but; if your husband falls ill, can you have a family member on standby who would be willing and able to come out to you to help? Find out before you travel where the nearest GP surgery, pharmacy or hospital is. St9re the number 9f a taxi company into your phone before you set off; it'll be there if you need it in an emergency. Make sure you've packed all medicines before you go. Phone the campsite and ask if, in the case of an emergency, would they be able to accommodate you for a little while longer. Perhaps if you set up some pre arranged plans to mitigate your worries, you'd feel more comfortable and relaxed about going?

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