Do things when you feel ready, there is no rush. We are all different. It us such a loss to be on your own, that probably it is too soon to be clearing out your husbands personal things. I did it gradually, I gave his clothesto the Charity Shop, just kept two or three items back, then I was glad I had. I have still kept a couple of his favourite items, but the rest has gone to children, but mainly to Charity as he'd would have wanted. I have also changed the decoration and a lot if the furniture now, but it took me years. Your daughter in law sound kind, she will still be there when you feel ready. Just be kind to yourself.
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