Bereavement cards

When my husband dies in March my daughters received cards from many of ours friends and thery were very touched. A bereavement touches many people.

Of course you can send a card to your son in law if you wish. I am sure he would much appreciate it - and certainly address it to both of them (and children if any).

In present circumstances perhaps you could send your daughter a small gift of money and ask her to buy some pretty flowers on your behalf next time they are shopping.

I tend to stick with “Thinking if you” type cards. It is always hard to know what to say, but often the less the better.
When Paw died I had many, many letters and cards and it wasn’t o much what people wrote, but that they had taken the time to think of us.
Yes - do send a card or a letter. It will be appreciated.

I remember in my young days death notices in the local paper often said " no cards or letters please " You never see this now .

I agree that ‘thinking of you’ cards somehow seem kinder than bereavement cards I appreciated them when DH died.