Thank you all for your fantastic messages. It has made me realise that yes I have created a new identity for myself in these people's eyes, as they have not been my friends long enough to know that I used to do all sorts of things before my husband's illness!
Icanhandthemback I did laugh at the is it immoral - well that would be understandable then wouldn't it but it is quite the opposite!!
My trouble as always is that I try to keep everyone happy but not on this one, no way.
Keep your fingers crossed/prayers going for my daughter who is a matter of concern.
Angela Rayner lashes out and calls Sunak “pint sized loser”.
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?