I lost my Son 25 years ago, two weeks after his 21st, which devastated both me and my Husband, this April I also lost my Keyworker Daughter to Covid, leaving my 4 Grandchildren without a Mum, but this time I do not have my Husband to grieve with, as he also died 3 years ago. I must admit, if it was not for my beautiful Grandchildren, I would not wish to be here, but they have suffered enough, and they need me . As for what anyone can do for people who have lost children, all I can say is, just be there for them, support and listen when they are in total despair, but do not push them if they are not ready. I am fortunate in that I have many really good friends, who have been my saviour, especially whilst shielded during this pandemic, my heart goes out anyone else in this awful position.