I always just think it is their turn now and feel happy that they have all their life ahead of them to find things to enjoy and to make a difference to the world in their own ways. And then get on and try and enjoy what I have left and in the ways that I am able.
I have thought a lot about death since my OH died in February and sometimes think of how much he is missing (and missed during the years he was so ill) and it makes me all the more determined to enjoy what life I have left, as best I may.
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?