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Bereavement

is anybody out there?

(83 Posts)
Skeeter Sat 02-Sept-23 11:38:12

my husband died three days ago..i just wanted to say good morning to someone

Greenfinch Wed 06-Sept-23 17:33:45

You are both in my thoughts.

Norah Wed 06-Sept-23 16:16:03

Hugs and flowers flowers flowers

dogsmother Tue 05-Sept-23 12:12:03

Oh hev, so sorry was just checking in on skeeter. This is sad 💐 a virtual hug for you too x

Greenfinch Tue 05-Sept-23 12:07:48

Still thinking of you both at this sad time.

cornergran Tue 05-Sept-23 08:54:59

Good morning hev, skeeter and all who grieve. Please join the good morning thread, you’ll have kind, welcoming daily contact with others.

SuzieHi Tue 05-Sept-23 08:38:54

Good morning🌷🌷🌷for you, and hoping your family and friends are being kind and thoughtful at this sad time xxx

lixy Tue 05-Sept-23 08:17:06

Good morning Skeeter and Hev61
Good to see you popping up on other threads.
Thinking of you both.

lixy Mon 04-Sept-23 08:33:19

Good morning Skeeter, and Hev61.
So very sorry that you are both facing such sad and tricky times.
Can only offer a hand and reiterate the recommendation to join the Good Morning thread that Michael starts each day as a gentle connection to the everyday lives of gransnetters.
Will be thinking of you.

crazyH Sun 03-Sept-23 22:06:35

Oh Hev61 - so sorry

Skeeter Sun 03-Sept-23 21:51:58

Hev61

Hello Skeeter. My husband died yesterday.

oh...my...I am so sorry you are going through the pain...hugs

Luckygirl3 Sun 03-Sept-23 21:49:26

Condolences to you too Hev - we are all here during this difficult time.

ixion Sun 03-Sept-23 21:41:40

So sorry for your loss, Hev61.
Always someone here to talk with💐

Skeeter Sun 03-Sept-23 20:45:53

Hev61

Hello Skeeter. My husband died yesterday.

Oh my...i am so sorry hon..it's very devastating ...i am here too if you need to talk...i don't know how to get notifications yet tho...i go see

Huia Sun 03-Sept-23 20:29:36

Best wishes and love -such a difficult time for you.

Greenfinch Sun 03-Sept-23 20:21:46

Condolences to you too Hev. My thoughts are with you tonight.

Hithere Sun 03-Sept-23 20:12:04

So sorry Hev

Hev61 Sun 03-Sept-23 20:06:41

Hello Skeeter. My husband died yesterday.

Esmay Sun 03-Sept-23 12:36:44

So sorry to hear your very sad news .
I'll say a prayer for you .

grandtanteJE65 Sun 03-Sept-23 12:36:21

My heart goes out to you, both for your loss, and because you sound so lonely, naturally enough.

It's is always afternoon before anything from Gransnet turns up on my computer, so I hope you are not struggling on completely alone apart from all of us on Gransnet who have answered.

Come back any time - we will be here.

biglouis Sun 03-Sept-23 12:31:44

flowers Sorry for your loss

Greenfinch Sun 03-Sept-23 12:18:56

Good morning Skeeter. I hope you managed to get a reasonable amount of sleep last night .

lixy Sun 03-Sept-23 12:07:43

Good morning Skeeter.
AC can indeed be a blessing - it takes me by surprise each time they show me that they are really grown-ups now.
Hang on in there.

Skeeter Sat 02-Sept-23 23:41:48

our daughter and our son-in-law handled everything...stayed nite and day..hospice and all medications...
i handed everything to them to make all decisions...
they came today with a new bed for me and peaches our last little dog..
they held pawpaw like a baby and saw to all so I could prepare my soul..mind
i had the time to be with him in the way he and me needed..
What a blessing to see our kids just shine and love us so much..

V3ra Sat 02-Sept-23 23:40:26

I've got no advice for you Skeeter as I haven't been in your situation.
Lots of love and support from other people here who do know how you feel, hope it helps xx

Grammaretto Sat 02-Sept-23 22:55:25

I am so sorry for you. Skeeter
It's such a shock.
Gransnet is a wonderful support.