I don't know if this is helpful but a few years ago l was in the same position with my brother who was a hoarder and died intestate. l had little idea of his finances, although l knew he owned his small house outright. I checked his home, as far as l could, for a will/paperwork/valuables and employed a clearance company to clear the house. Some hoarders hoard money, my brother spent very little and appeared not to trust banks much. If you use house clearance I would be there when they are doing it, at least initially, you don't know what they might find and as they clear some space you can see what is there. If they don't want you there, don't use them.
I visited some banks where he had accounts myself but ended up instructing a solicitor to untangle the paperwork, house sale etc and although l can't remember how much it was l thought it was fair, it took a lot of the stress and distress off me and the solicitor's fee, clearance fee etc all came out of the house sale.
My brother struggled with mental health all his life and died too young. I miss him.
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